Porque é que os homens têm medo de abordar as mulheres? 6 razões comprovadas

Approaching new people is never an easy decision but it gets even harder if a guy likes a girl and wants to get to know her better. He would like to approach her but doesn’t know how.

He is afraid of rejection and he isn’t sure about himself. He is afraid that he will make a fool out of himself if he says something inappropriate. And in most cases, he quits.

Maybe he will try again once he drinks a bit more and gets an ego boost from alcohol but he surely won’t come close to a beautiful girl sober. So, the question is: Why are guys afraid to approach some women?

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Têm medo da rejeição

Quando um homem vê uma mulher que lhe parece tão atraente, perde imediatamente a cabeça por ela. O seu cérebro está a trabalhar ao máximo e ele tenta encontrar boas formas de a seduzir e de a tornar sua.

Começa a fazer coisas que nunca fez e sente-se mal por isso. Alguns rapazes ficam muito nervosos e começam a ter alguns tiques que parecem totalmente antinaturais. E quando vêem como estão ansiosos e com mau aspeto, decidem adiar esse momento.

The worst thing for them would be if the girl they like so much rejects them because they don’t look as natural as they really are.

Têm medo do que a rapariga de quem se aproximam possa pensar deles

Por vezes, os homens pensam demasiado. Pensam demasiado nas coisas that haven’t happened yet and they are scared about what could happen if something goes wrong.

Their wish to approach a girl is considerable but the fear of being ashamed is even bigger. They simply don’t know how the girl they are approaching will react when they show up in front of her. They don’t know what she will think of them.

Será que ela os vai achar estranhos, engraçados ou estúpidos? E enquanto pensam assim, perdem toda a vontade de abordar a rapariga e simplesmente desistem.

They think they don’t deserve her

Por muito bonito que um rapaz seja, vai ter medo quando quiser abordar uma rapariga. Ele vai pensar que não é suficientemente bom para ela e que ela o vai rejeitar.

He doesn’t have autoestima suficiente and he thinks that she will think the worst about him. That’s why guys miss many chances to get to know a girl they like so much. Maybe that girl would be glad that a guy is interested in her and she wouldn’t think anything bad.

But since guys don’t know that, they blow their chance of a great relationship.

They are so anxious that they can’t act normal

There are guys who are open and they don’t have any problems with approaching a girl. But there are also guys who get so anxious when they want to approach a girl that they start having a real panic attack.

Their palms start to get sweat, they feel dizzy, they don’t know how to properly say normal sentences and they act like they have never spoken before. And because of something like this, they simply give up on approaching a girl.

Por muito que queiram aquela rapariga e por muito que gostem dela, preferem afastar-se e ficar sozinhos porque têm medo do que possa acontecer se derem o primeiro passo.

Têm medo de ser criticados

There are guys who have a fear that they will be judged and criticized by a woman they want to approach. They fear that she will think they are weird and that they even don’t know how to hit on a woman.

They don’t want to get hurt or to feel bad and that is the reason they hold off from any contact with girls. Only one they drink another glass of wine will they get the ego boost they need to approach a girl and ask her out on a date.

In a situation like that, they won’t be scared of anything and they won’t think about the bad things that could happen in the process.

Acham que não são suficientemente bons

Quando um rapaz pensa que não é suficientemente bom, nunca terá coragem suficiente para abordar uma rapariga. Ele vai pensar que ela pode encontrar uma mãe melhorn do que ele e ele perderá a oportunidade de ser feliz.

That is their biggest mistake because girls actually just want a normal and good boy who will treat them like they deserve. They will also be anxious and won’t feel so comfortable in the beginning but as soon as they get to know a man, they will feel much better.

That’s why we should never miss out on new things in life because we don’t know which ones of them will be great!