Perché i ragazzi hanno paura di approcciare le donne? 6 motivi comprovati

Approaching new people is never an easy decision but it gets even harder if a guy likes a girl and wants to get to know her better. He would like to approach her but doesn’t know how.

He is afraid of rejection and he isn’t sure about himself. He is afraid that he will make a fool out of himself if he says something inappropriate. And in most cases, he quits.

Maybe he will try again once he drinks a bit more and gets an ego boost from alcohol but he surely won’t come close to a beautiful girl sober. So, the question is: Why are guys afraid to approach some women?

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Hanno paura del rifiuto

Vedete, quando un uomo vede una donna che gli sembra così attraente, perde immediatamente la testa per lei. Il suo cervello lavora al massimo e cerca di trovare un buon modo per sedurla e farla sua.

Inizia a fare cose che non ha mai fatto e si sente in colpa. Alcuni ragazzi diventano molto nervosi e iniziano ad avere dei tic che sembrano del tutto innaturali. E quando si accorgono di quanto sembrano ansiosi e cattivi, decidono di rimandare quel momento.

The worst thing for them would be if the girl they like so much rejects them because they don’t look as natural as they really are.

Hanno paura di ciò che la ragazza che stanno avvicinando penserà di loro.

A volte i ragazzi pensano troppo. Pensano troppo alle cose that haven’t happened yet and they are scared about what could happen if something goes wrong.

Their wish to approach a girl is considerable but the fear of being ashamed is even bigger. They simply don’t know how the girl they are approaching will react when they show up in front of her. They don’t know what she will think of them.

Penserà che sono strani, divertenti o stupidi? E mentre ci pensano troppo, perdono la voglia di avvicinarsi davvero alla ragazza e semplicemente rinunciano.

They think they don’t deserve her

Non importa quanto sia bello un ragazzo, quando vuole approcciare una ragazza avrà paura. Penserà di non essere abbastanza bravo per lei e che lei lo rifiuterà.

He doesn’t have sufficiente autostima and he thinks that she will think the worst about him. That’s why guys miss many chances to get to know a girl they like so much. Maybe that girl would be glad that a guy is interested in her and she wouldn’t think anything bad.

But since guys don’t know that, they blow their chance of a great relationship.

They are so anxious that they can’t act normal

There are guys who are open and they don’t have any problems with approaching a girl. But there are also guys who get so anxious when they want to approach a girl that they start having a real panic attack.

Their palms start to get sweat, they feel dizzy, they don’t know how to properly say normal sentences and they act like they have never spoken before. And because of something like this, they simply give up on approaching a girl.

Non importa quanto desiderino quella ragazza e quanto gli piaccia, preferiscono fare un passo indietro e stare da soli perché sono terrorizzati da ciò che potrebbe accadere se facessero il primo passo.

Hanno paura di essere criticati

There are guys who have a fear that they will be judged and criticized by a woman they want to approach. They fear that she will think they are weird and that they even don’t know how to hit on a woman.

They don’t want to get hurt or to feel bad and that is the reason they hold off from any contact with girls. Only one they drink another glass of wine will they get the ego boost they need to approach a girl and ask her out on a date.

In a situation like that, they won’t be scared of anything and they won’t think about the bad things that could happen in the process.

Pensano di non essere abbastanza bravi

Quando un ragazzo pensa di non essere abbastanza bravo, non avrà mai abbastanza coraggio per approcciare una ragazza. Penserà che può trovare una madre miglioredi lui e perderà la possibilità di essere felice.

That is their biggest mistake because girls actually just want a normal and good boy who will treat them like they deserve. They will also be anxious and won’t feel so comfortable in the beginning but as soon as they get to know a man, they will feel much better.

That’s why we should never miss out on new things in life because we don’t know which ones of them will be great!