8 Coisas Merdosas que os Homens Fazem Quando Querem Acabar Contigo

Apaixonar-se é a parte mais fácil. Mas quando as coisas se tornam difíceis e é preciso dizer algumas verdades duras, os homens recorrem a formas pouco inteligentes de a fazer saber que querem sair.

If you’ve ever suddenly started wondering what the heck has gotten into your boyfriend, this is the right place for you. Some men start acting really shitty when they want to break up but don’t have the balls to tell you (or send you a mensagem de texto de separação). 

A sua vontade é acabar com a relação e, por isso, começa a comportar-se como um completo estranho e a distanciar-se para que você o faça por eles.

They are cowards and, instead of facing you with their honest feelings, they will resort to these 8 shitty things to subtly let you know they’re no longer into you.

Colocar a culpa em si quando se trata da tensão da sua relação

Things have taken a turn for the worse and it’s clear who’s to blame here. But no, Mr. Perfect isn’t capable of taking any blame for his really crappy actions, so he just points fingers instead.

He’s the one who complete distanced himself from you, but he starts accusing you of doing the same. He’s the one who has suddenly become secretive and evasive, but he insists you’re the one who’s keeping things from him.

Whatever shitty thing he does, he just tries to pin it on you. He’s got no balls to at least be genuine and real with you, so he resorts to the lowest of lows.

Chama-te louca quando lhe chamas a atenção para o seu comportamento

This is just the easiest way out. Instead of accepting his role in this shitshow, he calls you crazy for suggesting he’s doing anything wrong. When men don’t want to stick around, this is the easiest thing to do.

Insultar-te e não medir as palavras é a forma que ele tem de te dizer para o dispensares das suas funções de namorado. O pé dele já está a meio caminho da porta, por isso facilita-lhe a vida e dizer adeus. You don’t need an immature boy anyway!

He starts whining whenever he’s not okay with something

A verdade é que os homens adoram ser doces e carinhosos com as suas raparigas. Adoram fazê-las sentir-se mimadas e especiais. E merecidamente!

But when a guy has no problem whining and complaining around you, he’s clearly no longer trying to win you over.

Yeah, it’s really sad and unfortunate (because you deserve someone who’ll treat you like the queen you are), but it’s also a blessing in disguise.

Basicamente, ele já não se preocupa o suficiente para ser simpático e amável consigo, por isso pode expulsá-lo e concentrar-se no que realmente importa.

Ele faz planos com os amigos sem sequer te dizer

He goes out as much as he wants and for as long as he wants, regardless of you knowing about it or not. He doesn’t tell you about his plans and he doesn’t text you when he’s out.

He’s just off doing his own thing and you’re not sure what the hell is going on anymore. To you, he’s still o seu namorado, but to him, it’s no longer the case.

He wants out of the relationship and that’s why he’s acting like he’s a single dude. That’s what he aspires to be and that’s why he no longer informs you of his plans. In his head, you’re no longer his girl.

Ele promete-te uma coisa e depois volta atrás na sua promessa

He has become a huge disappointment. You make plans that you’re really excited about, and then he cancels last minute. No explanation, no real reason, it’s just no longer happening.

He tells you he’s going to pick up your dry cleaning or get you lunch on his way over, but he never does. His word no longer means anything and he doesn’t even care to explain himself.

In his head, you’re not going to be his girlfriend for much longer, so there’s no point being a good boyfriend anymore. He doesn’t try anymore and it’s really showing.

Ele põe fim a toda e qualquer conversa sobre o futuro

Se pensarmos sequer em falar de casamento e filhos, ele rejeita a ideia. Ele acha que o casamento é uma porcaria e não sabe muito bem o que quer para o seu futuro.

Recusa-se a dizer o que quer que seja e nota-se que a ideia de falar sobre o assunto o deixa ansioso. De repente, o tipo que se apaixonou apaixonado por é uma sombra do seu antigo eu.

This guy is just trying to find a way to escape commitment and he doesn’t care how shitty it makes him look.

Ele namorisca abertamente com outras raparigas em público

He’s not even trying to hide it or deny it. He smiles at every hot girl that passes him by and even talks them up on occasion. Sure, he totally downplays it and might even claim he’s just being friendly, but you know that’s a lie.

Ele está a tentar fazer-te ver que é um mau namorado para que possas acabar com ele. Quer que não gostes dele ao ponto de te perguntares o que é que viste nele.

Ele demora muito tempo a responder às tuas mensagens e quase nem telefona

At this point, it’s really obvious what this means. A guy who loves you, wants to be with you, and appreciates you, answers your texts. He also calls you and makes sure to text you during the day as well.

But his guy has become a ghost. You can feel him slipping away text by text, missed call by missed call. Every day, you realize it a bit more, you just don’t want to admit it to yourself.

Querida, ele não passa de um desperdício do teu tempo. Deixa este imbecil imaturo com alguém do nível dele e vai procurar um homem que te respeite o suficiente para te dizer o que sente diretamente na tua cara.

Nobody can guarantee you it’s going to be perfect, but it sure as hell can’t get more petty than this.