8 cose schifose che gli uomini fanno quando vogliono lasciarti

Innamorarsi è la parte più facile. Ma quando il gioco si fa duro e bisogna far emergere alcune crude verità, gli uomini ricorrono a modi schifosi per farvi sapere che vogliono uscirne.

If you’ve ever suddenly started wondering what the heck has gotten into your boyfriend, this is the right place for you. Some men start acting really shitty when they want to break up but don’t have the balls to tell you (or send you a messaggio di testo di rottura). 

La loro mente è decisa a lasciarsi, quindi iniziano a comportarsi come un perfetto estraneo e a prendere le distanze per far sì che tu lo faccia al posto loro.

They are cowards and, instead of facing you with their honest feelings, they will resort to these 8 shitty things to subtly let you know they’re no longer into you.

Dare la colpa a voi quando si tratta della tensione della vostra relazione

Things have taken a turn for the worse and it’s clear who’s to blame here. But no, Mr. Perfect isn’t capable of taking any blame for his really crappy actions, so he just points fingers instead.

He’s the one who complete distanced himself from you, but he starts accusing you of doing the same. He’s the one who has suddenly become secretive and evasive, but he insists you’re the one who’s keeping things from him.

Whatever shitty thing he does, he just tries to pin it on you. He’s got no balls to at least be genuine and real with you, so he resorts to the lowest of lows.

Vi dà della pazza quando lo chiamate in causa per il suo comportamento.

This is just the easiest way out. Instead of accepting his role in this shitshow, he calls you crazy for suggesting he’s doing anything wrong. When men don’t want to stick around, this is the easiest thing to do.

Insultarvi e non usare mezzi termini è il suo modo di dirvi di sollevarlo dall'incarico di fidanzato. Il suo piede è già a metà strada dalla porta, quindi rendetegliela facile e dire addio. You don’t need an immature boy anyway!

He starts whining whenever he’s not okay with something

La verità è che gli uomini amano essere dolci e teneri con le loro ragazze. Amano farle sentire coccolate e speciali. E lo fanno meritatamente!

But when a guy has no problem whining and complaining around you, he’s clearly no longer trying to win you over.

Yeah, it’s really sad and unfortunate (because you deserve someone who’ll treat you like the queen you are), but it’s also a blessing in disguise.

In pratica non gli importa più di comportarsi in modo gentile e simpatico con voi, quindi potete cacciarlo via e concentrarvi su ciò che conta davvero.

Fa progetti con i suoi amici senza nemmeno dirvelo.

He goes out as much as he wants and for as long as he wants, regardless of you knowing about it or not. He doesn’t tell you about his plans and he doesn’t text you when he’s out.

He’s just off doing his own thing and you’re not sure what the hell is going on anymore. To you, he’s still il tuo ragazzo, but to him, it’s no longer the case.

He wants out of the relationship and that’s why he’s acting like he’s a single dude. That’s what he aspires to be and that’s why he no longer informs you of his plans. In his head, you’re no longer his girl.

Vi promette qualcosa e poi si rimangia la promessa.

He has become a huge disappointment. You make plans that you’re really excited about, and then he cancels last minute. No explanation, no real reason, it’s just no longer happening.

He tells you he’s going to pick up your dry cleaning or get you lunch on his way over, but he never does. His word no longer means anything and he doesn’t even care to explain himself.

In his head, you’re not going to be his girlfriend for much longer, so there’s no point being a good boyfriend anymore. He doesn’t try anymore and it’s really showing.

Mette fine a tutte le conversazioni sul futuro.

Se anche solo si pensa di parlare di matrimonio e figli, lui rifiuta. Pensa che il matrimonio faccia schifo e non ha assolutamente chiaro cosa vuole per il suo futuro.

Si rifiuta di dire qualcosa di concreto e si capisce che il solo pensiero di parlarne lo mette in ansia. Improvvisamente, l'uomo di cui ti sei innamorata innamorato di è l'ombra di se stesso.

This guy is just trying to find a way to escape commitment and he doesn’t care how shitty it makes him look.

Flirta apertamente con altre ragazze in pubblico

He’s not even trying to hide it or deny it. He smiles at every hot girl that passes him by and even talks them up on occasion. Sure, he totally downplays it and might even claim he’s just being friendly, but you know that’s a lie.

Sta cercando di farvi capire quanto sia un pessimo fidanzato per farvi lasciare. Vuole che non vi piaccia a tal punto da chiedervi che cosa avete mai visto in lui.

Ci mette una vita a rispondere ai tuoi messaggi e non ti chiama quasi più.

At this point, it’s really obvious what this means. A guy who loves you, wants to be with you, and appreciates you, answers your texts. He also calls you and makes sure to text you during the day as well.

But his guy has become a ghost. You can feel him slipping away text by text, missed call by missed call. Every day, you realize it a bit more, you just don’t want to admit it to yourself.

Tesoro, non è altro che una perdita di tempo. Lascia questo idiota immaturo a qualcuno del suo livello e vai a cercare un ragazzo che ti rispetti abbastanza da dirti quello che prova direttamente in faccia.

Nobody can guarantee you it’s going to be perfect, but it sure as hell can’t get more petty than this.