És um sapiófilo? 10 características de alguém que gosta de humor
When it comes to the definition of a Sapiophile, it’s someone who is attracted to intelligence in others.
In today’s society, where people only care for looks, sapiophiles are really rare. They seek deep conversations, simply skipping small talk.
Querem conhecer os seus pontos de vista sobre a vida em geral e a sua opinião sobre determinados assuntos. Olham para além de tudo o que é típico de um ser humano e apaixonam-se pelo invulgar.
Good looks and a fat bank account aren’t important to these people—what they want in life goes beyond all of that!
They want to see curiosity sparkle out of people’s eyes and they want to see your sense for self-improvement.
Há uma hipótese de ser uma das pessoas mais raras do mundo, uma das que olham para além do físico.
Para saber se é um sapiófilo, tem de ter estas características:
Também é uma pessoa inteligente
You attract your own kind. Intelligent people simply can’t talk with the average person, so you tend to seek pessoas inteligentes também.
Pessoas estúpidas bore you and that’s the reason why your social life is a bit complex.
It’s not like you don’t want to go to a party. It’s more like you don’t want to listen to sex-talk and who’s on the cover of what magazine.
Ficar em casa com um ou dois amigos a beber vinho é muito mais apelativo para si.
A conversa inteligente excita-o
The foreplay for a sapiophile is probably a discussion about some book or an art piece. Sapiophiles don’t really care about showbiz and what someone wore.
Preocupam-se com a galáxia e com os museus, não com as discotecas e as passarelas.
To turn you on, to make you want to have sex with your partner, the only thing they must do is to make you question your beliefs, provoke a thought process and teach you something new. That’s it.
A ignorância assusta-o
There will be times where someone will approach you and try to flirt with you,and when you try talking with them, you only see that they’re an airheaded girl or an overconfident man.
What happens next? You run off screaming. Isn’t it scary how stupid people can be?
No matter how attractive someone is, if they don’t know how to keep a conversation going, you run for the hills.
A má gramática pode deixar-nos muito zangados
You have a ”grammar filter” built into your mind and it doesn’t matter if it’s a party invite or someone asking you for a date, you simply get mad because of one grammar mistake.
It doesn’t matter how nice their intention was, you can’t help but wonder if this person had a proper education or if they have ever had a book in their hands.
If you come to their house and they don’t have books around, you leave
Em primeiro lugar, se alguém tem livros em casa, isso significa que, pelo menos, já teve vontade de ler.
Secondly, books are a great escape if people start talking about topics you’re not interested in.
Pode simplesmente tirar um livro da prateleira e lê-lo em vez de ouvir um disparate qualquer.
Se houver alguns livros de qualidade nas prateleiras, pode até considerar um segundo encontro com ele/ela.
It’s just because you care more about what book someone is reading than what they are wearing.
As pessoas com bom gosto intrigam-no
Adoramos quando alguém desenvolve o seu próprio gosto pela música, moda e ideias, em vez de pessoas que fazem as mesmas coisas e têm as mesmas opiniões que toda a gente.
You want to hear about new ideas and new views. You don’t want someone who is going to tell you the same thing as everyone else.
A inteligência emocional também é importante
You’re not only interested in the mind of someone, but also the heart and the way that person deals with and expresses their emotions. Sometimes, you even value EQ over IQ.
You want your partners to be introspective enough to know what’s happening in their bodies and minds and to know how to express that properly because overwhelming emotions, without the right way to express them, only lead to drama.
And you don’t want drama in your life.
Quer ter um bom ouvinte ao seu lado
Neste mundo, as pessoas estão apenas à espera da sua vez de falar numa conversa.
They don’t listen properly, so when you find someone who truly listens to what you have to say, you will hold on to them.
You are ready to listen to whatever someone is telling you—that’s why you want the same thing from your partner.
Quer perguntas estimulantes
A situação é a seguinte: saiu com a pessoa pela primeira vez e o que é que acontece? Começam a fazer-te perguntas às quais podes responder com uma palavra.
NO! You don’t want it. You can’t handle small talk questions which everyone can ask you.
Quer algo que o faça calar-se durante algum tempo e pensar realmente na resposta.
When someone is asking you questions which make you think about your previous thoughts and make you become more aware of a certain topic—well that’s an amazing question!
Quer alguém que se defenda numa conversa
Doesn’t matter if it’s your partner, your friend or a family member with some strange music taste, you love those people because they stand up for what they love.
They hold their own views as precious and they won’t let anyone tell them what to think and what to feel—and that’s the reason why these people are in your life.
You can’t stand someone who’s easy to manipulate and changes their likes and dislikes whenever he/she changes the environment.
Yes, you are different than most of the people around here, but be aware of the fact that being different isn’t something bad at all.
Gosta de ver para além do físico e vê a personalidade pura de alguém.
That’s what makes you so unique and lovable!
