Sei un sapiofilo? 10 caratteristiche di una persona appassionata di arguzia

When it comes to the definition of a Sapiophile, it’s someone who is attracted to intelligence in others.

In today’s society, where people only care for looks, sapiophiles are really rare. They seek deep conversations, simply skipping small talk.

Vogliono conoscere il vostro punto di vista sulla vita in generale e la vostra opinione su determinati argomenti. Guardano al di là di tutto ciò che è tipico di un essere umano e si innamorano dell'insolito.

Good looks and a fat bank account aren’t important to these people—what they want in life goes beyond all of that!

They want to see curiosity sparkle out of people’s eyes and they want to see your sense for self-improvement.

È possibile che siate una delle persone più rare al mondo, una di quelle che guardano al di sopra del fisico.

Per sapere se siete sapiofili, dovete avere queste caratteristiche:

Lei stesso è una persona intelligente

You attract your own kind. Intelligent people simply can’t talk with the average person, so you tend to seek persone intelligenti anche.

Persone stupide bore you and that’s the reason why your social life is a bit complex.

It’s not like you don’t want to go to a party. It’s more like you don’t want to listen to sex-talk and who’s on the cover of what magazine.

Rimanere a casa con uno o due amici bevendo vino è molto più attraente per voi.

I discorsi intelligenti ti eccitano

The foreplay for a sapiophile is probably a discussion about some book or an art piece. Sapiophiles don’t really care about showbiz and what someone wore.

Si preoccupano della galassia e dei musei, non delle discoteche e delle piste.

To turn you on, to make you want to have sex with your partner, the only thing they must do is to make you question your beliefs, provoke a thought process and teach you something new. That’s it.

L'ignoranza vi spaventa

There will be times where someone will approach you and try to flirt with you,and when you try talking with them, you only see that they’re an airheaded girl or an overconfident man.

What happens next? You run off screaming. Isn’t it scary how stupid people can be?

No matter how attractive someone is, if they don’t know how to keep a conversation going, you run for the hills.

La cattiva grammatica può farvi arrabbiare molto

You have a ”grammar filter” built into your mind and it doesn’t matter if it’s a party invite or someone asking you for a date, you simply get mad because of one grammar mistake.

It doesn’t matter how nice their intention was, you can’t help but wonder if this person had a proper education or if they have ever had a book in their hands.

If you come to their house and they don’t have books around, you leave

Prima di tutto, se qualcuno ha dei libri in casa significa che ha almeno avuto voglia di leggere.

Secondly, books are a great escape if people start talking about topics you’re not interested in.

Si può semplicemente prendere un libro dallo scaffale e leggerlo invece di ascoltare qualche sciocchezza.

Se sugli scaffali ci sono libri di qualità, potreste anche pensare di avere un secondo appuntamento con lui/lei.

It’s just because you care more about what book someone is reading than what they are wearing.

Le persone con gusto vi incuriosiscono

Si ama quando qualcuno sviluppa un proprio gusto per la musica, la moda e le idee piuttosto che persone che fanno le stesse cose e hanno le stesse opinioni come tutti gli altri.

You want to hear about new ideas and new views. You don’t want someone who is going to tell you the same thing as everyone else.

Anche l'intelligenza emotiva conta

You’re not only interested in the mind of someone, but also the heart and the way that person deals with and expresses their emotions. Sometimes, you even value EQ over IQ.

You want your partners to be introspective enough to know what’s happening in their bodies and minds and to know how to express that properly because overwhelming emotions, without the right way to express them, only lead to drama.

And you don’t want drama in your life.

Volete un grande ascoltatore al vostro fianco

In questo mondo, le persone aspettano solo il loro turno per parlare in una conversazione.

They don’t listen properly, so when you find someone who truly listens to what you have to say, you will hold on to them.

You are ready to listen to whatever someone is telling you—that’s why you want the same thing from your partner.

Volete domande che facciano riflettere

Ok, la situazione è questa: siete usciti per la prima volta con lui/lei e cosa succede? Cominciano a farvi domande a cui potete rispondere con una sola parola.

NO! You don’t want it. You can’t handle small talk questions which everyone can ask you.

Volete qualcosa che vi faccia stare zitti per un po' e pensare davvero alla risposta.

When someone is asking you questions which make you think about your previous thoughts and make you become more aware of a certain topic—well that’s an amazing question!

Volete una persona che si faccia valere durante una conversazione

Doesn’t matter if it’s your partner, your friend or a family member with some strange music taste, you love those people because they stand up for what they love.

They hold their own views as precious and they won’t let anyone tell them what to think and what to feel—and that’s the reason why these people are in your life.

You can’t stand someone who’s easy to manipulate and changes their likes and dislikes whenever he/she changes the environment.

Yes, you are different than most of the people around here, but be aware of the fact that being different isn’t something bad at all.

Vi piace vedere oltre l'aspetto fisico e vedere la pura personalità di una persona.

That’s what makes you so unique and lovable!