Se estás à procura de um sinal de que deves deixá-lo, aqui está ele

Há um tipo de quem gostas muito. O gajo ama mesmo. O tipo por quem faríamos tudo.

But the truth is that he doesn’t love you back. At least, not the way you love him. At least, not the way you want to be loved.

E, infelizmente, o senhor deputado sabe-o muito bem.

For as long as the two of you have known each other, he’s been leading you on. He’s been playing hot and cold mind games with you and he’s been sending you mixed signals.

There are days when he is cold and when he acts like he doesn’t even know you. And these are the days when you don’t have the slightest idea of what has to be done.

On other days, you become aware that you need to walk away from this guy and that you can’t wait for a second longer to do so.

You realize that he doesn’t love you enough, that he never did and that he never will. You realize that he doesn’t appreciate you and that he doesn’t deserve you.

Percebe que ele não é o homem que sempre imaginou que fosse e que deixá-lo é a única opção inteligente para si.

Mas no momento em que tomas essa decisão, ele volta a rastejar para a tua vida.

E, de repente, ele torna-se o rapaz mais querido de sempre. Torna-se o rapaz por quem nos apaixonámos. Torna-se amoroso e carinhoso.

E, sem mais nem menos, muda de ideias. Esquece a forma como ele a tratou antes e decide dar outra oportunidade a esta quase-relação.

You hope that this time will be different and that he’ll remain like this.

But of course, this doesn’t happen. Before you know it, this man goes back to his old ways and you go back to your old thoughts of leaving him.

And all of this goes on for years. You see that you’ve dragged yourself into an endless circle of love and hatred with this man and you simply don’t know what to do with your life.

You don’t know what the right decision is for you.

If you stick with this guy, you’ll waste years of your life in this type of relationship. You’ll end up miserable and you’ll blame yourself for not walking away from him sooner.

But on the other hand, if you leave him, you’ll always wonder what could have been of the two of you.

O que teria acontecido se lhe tivesse dado outra oportunidade? Teria ele sido o homem que querias que fosse? E se a sua personalidade amável e carinhosa fosse na realidade a sua verdadeira face?

You simply can’t make up your mind and you don’t know what to think about this man. What should you do?

Tudo o que queres é alguém que te ajude a tomar uma decisão final. Queres que alguém te diga o que fazer.

Deseja que aconteça algo que o ajude a ver as coisas com mais clareza. Está à procura de um sinal. Um sinal que lhe diga se deve ficar com ele ou se deve ir embora.

Bem, a sua espera chegou ao fim porque é agora! Este é o teu sinal.

This is me telling you to walk away from this man who clearly doesn’t deserve you and who clearly doesn’t love you enough and to never look back.

Isto sou eu a aconselhar-vos a diga o seu último adeus a este homem.

Isto sou eu a dizer-vos que deixar este gajo is the only choice you should make. This is me telling you that he is not worthy of you or of all the years you’ve spent with him.

This is me promising you that you’ll never regret leaving someone like him. That you’ll get over him and that you’ll move on with your life, like he never existed.

This is me promising you that you’ll be happy without him by your side.

Promising you that you’ll eventually be glad that you did this and that you’ll eventually realize that this was the best decision of your life.

Isto sou eu a dar-vos um sinal. E isto sou eu a pedir-vos que o aceitem.