Só um homem de verdade pode lidar com uma mulher emotiva

Isn’t it funny how we’re told that men need to be strong because women are fragile creatures? Mas no momento em que um homem vê as lágrimas de uma mulher, foge.

He runs and hides, or he tries to deal with it aggressively because that’s the only way he knows.

We have been told that men are strong, so they can protect women when they get too emotional and don’t know how to defend themselves.

Hoje em dia, é muito frequente ouvir dizer que um homem magoa uma mulher, pensando que she’s too emotional.

We always hear things like, “’you’re too clingy, you always cry”, but let’s be honest—most of the times we get emotional, it’s because of a forma como somos tratadas pelos homens.

Let’s be honest—só um homem a sério consegue lidar com uma mulher emocional.

A man who knows how to be polite and who knows how to treat her right. A real man who will be able to calm her down and a man who isn’t afraid to get emotional, too.

Se ela chorar, ele estará lá para ela.

He will hold her and he will hug the sadness out of her. He won’t run away like a coward, but rather stay by her side to help her get through the tough times.

This is when a woman knows that she has a real man on her side because he doesn’t get scared when things get a bit messy.

If she’s laughing, he won’t try to bring her down.

He won’t tell her that she’s too loud but rather laugh with her to make the moment even more enjoyable.

Para um homem de verdade, it’s all about making the woman in his life happy, and to make her life fulfilling and full of joy. To him, it’s not even that hard.

A real man won’t run if she starts yelling at him.

He knows she does that because she is upset for a reason—she won’t act like that for no reason.

He will sit down with her and talk it through, never letting her alone with her thoughts. He won’t let her fall asleep when she’s upset because he wants to make it work.

Um homem a sério compreenderá os ciúmes dela.

He will reassure her that he’s all hers without making a scene. Telling her that “there is no other woman out there that he would ever want to be with but her” is the biggest gift he will give her because it’s the truth.

There is no one as precious to him as she is and that’s when she’ll know that there is no need to fear he’s going to cheat on her.

Um homem a sério mostra fraqueza.

A real man knows that women want someone who is strong and can pick them up whenever is needed, but also can show their weakness to reassure her she’s not the only one who has bad days. Um verdadeiro homem não tem medo das lágrimas e não tem medo de mostrar afeto.

No matter how hard it gets and no matter how much time and effort he has to put into understanding her and being there for her, he doesn’t mind.

Porque ele se preocupa.

Because he knows how to treat her right. Because he’s a man and he knows that he has the ability to protect her from the world and from herself.

If you’re a woman who’s constantly been hurt by men who were telling you that your emotions aren’t valid or that they’re irrational, know that emotions aren’t there to be explained and they aren’t there to be rationalized.

Whoever told you otherwise wasn’t able to comprehend the woman you are.

Aguenta aí. You will find a real man in your life to whom you won’t be ‘too much’ or ‘not enough’.

Ele virá e mostrar-vos-á que sois tal como deveis ser para serdes amados. E nunca o largar quando o encontrarem.