Todos os homens lá fora, ouçam: É assim que se trata bem uma mulher

Hoje em dia, os homens pensam que as mulheres existem para os servir de uma forma ou de outra, nunca lhes tendo sido ensinado que tratar bem uma mulher também os pode beneficiar. Olham para nós a chorar, a desfazerem-se em pedacinhos e nunca se colocam à disposição para nos fazerem felizes.

Os seus pais nunca lhes ensinaram como ser um cavalheiro and how to treat a woman right. They watched them argue and split up, thinking that that’s the only way you can treat a woman and still be loved. But it’s so much more than that.

Treating a woman right isn’t difficult at all. We don’t want you to take the stars down from the sky for us and we don’t want you to go to the other side of the world to please us. We want to be treated with respect, kindness and care. Are we asking for too much?

Dê-lhe um presente de vez em quando. Believe she’s not asking you to spend your entire paycheck on a ring, even a flower from the side of the road is fine, as long as you remember to do something cute for her. You think that women take your hoodies for no reason? We take them to have a little piece of you with ourself, as we want to have you around.

Mas não se esqueça de que os melhores presentes que nos pode dar são o seu tempo e os seus esforços. We would get bored of you if we were together 24/7 because we have our own life to run after as well. But devoting a couple of hours a day to be there for us shouldn’t be that big of a deal, right?

É preciso compreender as nossas emoções. It’s well-known that women are emotional roller coasters with no end to the ride. We’re not asking you to understand everything, because sometimes we don’t understand ourself either. We feel everything so deeply that it starts to hurt and we want you to understand that it’s just the way it is. It’s nothing bad, it’s just part of our nature.

Treat her like you’re still trying to get her. Imagine that she’s not madly in love with you and what you would do to make her happy. Imagine all those things you did to obtain her heart. You treated her way better back then than you are doing right now and you can’t deny it. Just give her enough reason to be hooked forever while always putting in the effort. Effort doesn’t kill, you know?

And don’t forget to listen. We know how to solve every problem in our life all by ourself. It’s just that we want to know if you care enough to listen to what we have to say. I want to know if you are tentar resolver o problema or fix me. I know that it’s bad to play such games but to a woman it’s very important to know that you’re there for us.

Build up trust and don’t destroy it. I thought that this one would go without saying but I still think that it’s crucial, so here it is: don’t deceive her! Ela merece muito mais than that. Show her that she can trust you and show her that you will forever be hers. Because, believe me, if you deceive her once, you won’t get another chance.

Quick reminder: Don’t hide anything from us. We will either find it out or we’ll have known all along. You’re not doing yourself any favors by keeping a secret.

Cuide de si. No matter how much we want you to be there for us we still want you to take care of yourself. Take care of your own responsibilities and know when you’ve had enough. Do everything that’s needed to keep you confident as long as it’s not hurting us. For sure, we wouldn’t want a man whose life revolves around us. Do something good for yourself each day, because you’re doing us a favor too. Just be kind to yourself.

Ama-a. Ama-a incondicionalmente, totalmente, verdadeiramente, de todo o coração. Because if you really do love her, you will never treat her with disrespect and you will never make her feel miserable. Love her and don’t hold back. No matter what anyone around you says, she’s yours and you need to prove to her that you care. So love her.