Um homem que faz estas 5 coisas não merece uma segunda oportunidade
As merdas acontecem, as relações passam por provações dolorosas e as pessoas cometem erros.
That’s the course of life. So it’s really not the end of the world if your man has made a mistake or hurt you completely involuntarily.
Estas coisas acontecem na vida, e aprender a esquecer e a seguir em frente é a chave para uma vida bem sucedida, feliz e saudável.
Quantas vezes já lhe aconteceu fazer algo de que se arrependeu completamente pouco tempo depois?
How many times did you wish you could turn back time and not do a certain thing, but couldn’t?
That’s what I’m talking about here.
Há pessoas que cometem erros e sentem remorsos genuínos, o que significa que têm consciência de como o magoaram profundamente e de como estão genuinamente arrependidas.
E essas pessoas são merecedoras de uma segunda oportunidade.
But there are some people in this world who are the exact opposite. People who’ll do you wrong and not feel sorry.
Pessoas que nos magoam profundamente e que nos fazem sentir como se tivéssemos merecido.
Pessoas que nos fazem sentir culpados pelo seu comportamento merdoso e egocêntrico.
Those people are toxic, manipulative sociopaths, and they for sure don’t deserve a second chance to ruin your life.
Watch out for these assholes in disguise. Learn to read between the lines. Don’t buy into their ‘’sorry’’, knowing they actually don’t give a shit about what they did.
If you’ve got a guy who keeps doing these 5 things, be sure that he doesn’t deserve a second chance.
A única coisa que ele deve receber de ti são as direcções para a tua porta e um adeus para toda a vida!
1. Nunca assume a responsabilidade pelos seus actos
This guy refuses to own up to any of his shit. In his mind he’s faultless, and any shit he’s ever done to you – you had it coming.
He has a justification for every misdoing, and his charming, convincing personality actually makes you feel like what he’s saying is true—like you DID bring it upon yourself.
But guess what? No, you didn’t. If you were at fault in any way, you’d know it and own up to it.
Ele é um manipulador tóxicoe tu devias abrir os olhos e ver através das suas mentiras!
2. He NEVER says he’s sorry
This is a red flag you can see from a mile away. Being able to say you’re sorry is necessary to function properly in society, let alone in a committed relationship!
Se ele nunca diz isso, sabes o quão narcisista isso o torna? Quem é que neste mundo nunca cometeu um erro?
Who in this world never did anything wrong? Yeah, there’s no such thing!
So if your guy can’t apologize when an apology is due, cut him loose!
It’s difficult to comprehend the level of narcissism one must reach to think of oneself as flawless, but one thing’s for sure. You don’t want to be anywhere near that.
3. Ele nunca deixa de mencionar todos os teus defeitos
A guy who keeps pointing out your flaws whenever he’s caught red-handed is the ULTIMATE scumbag. Steer clear.
Don’t be near a man who so selfishly turns it all back to you once he has no escape plan.
Don’t be near a man who can stoop so low and hurt you as if you were nothing to him.
You’re human. You have feelings. Don’t let him walk all over you.
Isto é uma indicação clara de quão baixo ele está disposto a descer e de quão pouco te aprecia, por isso retribui o favor e deixá-lo ir.
4. He doesn’t make you feel good in your own skin
When you’re near him… you just can’t relax. You don’t feel like your authentic self.
He doesn’t let you be quem és, and if you even thought about just being your true, unedited self, you know he’d scold you.
He’s not supportive of your actions. He doesn’t make you want to be a better person. He makes you want to hide a part of yourself.
All he does is diminish you as a human being, disses you when you speak your mind, and tries to mold you into who he wants you to be. It’s uncomfortable, unnatural, and you don’t like it.
So don’t even think about giving this ass of a human being a second chance to stomp all over you.
You know you deserve much better, and you’ll sure as hell find it!
5. Ele invalida os seus sentimentos
Quão doentio é isto? Fazer uma pessoa sentir-se errada por ter certos sentimentos.
Fazer com que a mulher dele se sinta inferior e inútil por exprimir os seus pensamentos e problemas. O que é que ele lhe diz com isto?
He tells you that your feelings don’t matter. He tells you that you should keep whatever it is you feel to yourself, and let HIM take care of your needs.
It’s not enough that he’s a narcissistic manipulator, now you can’t even have feelings?
Honey, don’t let a guy tell you how to feel at any point in your life.
Your emotions are your own, and you’re NEVER wrong for feeling any type of way!
Only a weak, insecure man would make you feel this way because it’s his only way to control you.
And I KNOW you’re not the type of woman who will let this fly.
Sente o que sentes e dá-lhe um pontapé onde sabes, depois de lhe mostrares a porta. Adeus, rapaz!
