Un ragazzo che fa queste 5 cose non merita una seconda possibilità

Le cose succedono, le relazioni attraversano prove dolorose e le persone commettono errori.

That’s the course of life. So it’s really not the end of the world if your man has made a mistake or hurt you completely involuntarily.

Sono cose che capitano nella vita e imparare a lasciarle andare e ad andare avanti è la chiave per una vita sana, felice e di successo.

Quante volte vi è capitato di fare qualcosa di cui vi siete pentiti subito dopo?

How many times did you wish you could turn back time and not do a certain thing, but couldn’t?

That’s what I’m talking about here.

Ci sono persone che commettono errori e che in seguito provano un vero e proprio rimorso che indica la loro consapevolezza di avervi ferito profondamente e di essere sinceramente dispiaciuti.

E queste persone sono meritevoli di una seconda possibilità.

But there are some people in this world who are the exact opposite. People who’ll do you wrong and not feel sorry.

Persone che vi feriranno profondamente e vi faranno sentire come se ve la foste cercata.

Persone che vi faranno sentire in colpa per il loro comportamento di merda ed egocentrico.

Those people are toxic, manipulative sociopaths, and they for sure don’t deserve a second chance to ruin your life.

Watch out for these assholes in disguise. Learn to read between the lines. Don’t buy into their ‘’sorry’’, knowing they actually don’t give a shit about what they did.

If you’ve got a guy who keeps doing these 5 things, be sure that he doesn’t deserve a second chance.

L'unica cosa che dovrebbe ottenere da te sono le indicazioni per raggiungere la tua porta e un addio a vita!

1. Non si assume mai la responsabilità delle proprie azioni

This guy refuses to own up to any of his shit. In his mind he’s faultless, and any shit he’s ever done to you – you had it coming.

He has a justification for every misdoing, and his charming, convincing personality actually makes you feel like what he’s saying is true—like you DID bring it upon yourself.

But guess what? No, you didn’t. If you were at fault in any way, you’d know it and own up to it.

Egli è un manipolatore tossicoe voi dovreste aprire gli occhi e vedere attraverso le sue bugie!

2. He NEVER says he’s sorry

This is a red flag you can see from a mile away. Being able to say you’re sorry is necessary to function properly in society, let alone in a committed relationship!

Se non lo dice mai, sapete quanto questo lo renda narcisista? Chi al mondo non ha mai commesso un errore?

Who in this world never did anything wrong? Yeah, there’s no such thing!

So if your guy can’t apologize when an apology is due, cut him loose!

It’s difficult to comprehend the level of narcissism one must reach to think of oneself as flawless, but one thing’s for sure. You don’t want to be anywhere near that.

3. Non manca mai di menzionare tutti i vostri difetti.

A guy who keeps pointing out your flaws whenever he’s caught red-handed is the ULTIMATE scumbag. Steer clear.

Don’t be near a man who so selfishly turns it all back to you once he has no escape plan.

Don’t be near a man who can stoop so low and hurt you as if you were nothing to him.

You’re human. You have feelings. Don’t let him walk all over you.

Questa è una chiara indicazione di quanto sia disposto ad abbassarsi e di quanto poco vi apprezzi, quindi restituite il favore e lasciarlo andare.

4. He doesn’t make you feel good in your own skin

When you’re near him… you just can’t relax. You don’t feel like your authentic self.

He doesn’t let you be chi sei, and if you even thought about just being your true, unedited self, you know he’d scold you.

He’s not supportive of your actions. He doesn’t make you want to be a better person. He makes you want to hide a part of yourself.

All he does is diminish you as a human being, disses you when you speak your mind, and tries to mold you into who he wants you to be. It’s uncomfortable, unnatural, and you don’t like it.

So don’t even think about giving this ass of a human being a second chance to stomp all over you.

You know you deserve much better, and you’ll sure as hell find it!

5. Invalida i vostri sentimenti

Quanto è nauseante tutto questo? Far sentire una persona sbagliata per aver provato certi sentimenti.

Far sentire la sua donna bassa e inutile per aver espresso i suoi pensieri e problemi. Cosa vi dice con questo?

He tells you that your feelings don’t matter. He tells you that you should keep whatever it is you feel to yourself, and let HIM take care of your needs.

It’s not enough that he’s a narcissistic manipulator, now you can’t even have feelings?

Honey, don’t let a guy tell you how to feel at any point in your life.

Your emotions are your own, and you’re NEVER wrong for feeling any type of way!

Only a weak, insecure man would make you feel this way because it’s his only way to control you.

And I KNOW you’re not the type of woman who will let this fly. 

Sentite i vostri sentimenti e prendetelo a calci in testa dopo avergli mostrato la porta. Ragazzo, ciao!