Volver a lo que te rompió no te arreglará

Por favor, ten un poco de respeto por ti misma. No vuelvas con la persona que huyó de tu amor.

Don’t go back to the person who turned his back on you, leaving you all alone and vulnerable, while you were begging him to stay. Don’t go back to the one who broke all of his promises.

Te mereces a alguien que ni siquiera se plantee dejarte sola y confundida. Te mereces un amor en el que te sientas segura.

Amor que puede protegerte del desamor y el dolor.

Te mereces a alguien que nunca podría hacerte llorar. Alguien que nunca podría soportar verte derramar lágrimas por algo que te hizo.

I get it. It’s easy to take him back when he’s telling you everything you want to hear. When he’s promising you that this time, it WILL be different.

This time, he has changed. And it’s easy to believe what you want him to tell you. It’s way too easy loving someone you shouldn’t love anymore.

But hear me out. When he’s on his knees begging you to take him back, and saying that things are really going to be different this time, he will be telling you that because he knows that’s what you need to hear from him.

He knows that you need reassurance if you’re going to go back into the hole that he had dug for you, so please, don’t believe him.

Ya mostró sus verdaderos colores la primera vez que te dejó. Ya te demostró lo poco que le importas cuando te dejó tan fácilmente, sin dar marcha atrás.

Don’t be crazy to think he actually changed.

I know that you desperately want to feel loved, just like the rest of us. I know that you want to feel adored and be without a care in the world when you’re with him.

Pero la persona que te dejó una vez, lo volverá a hacer. La persona que te dejó nunca va a ser la persona que te va a arreglar.

Así que.., don’t go running back the minute he realizes what he has lost and wants you back. Don’t be the one to fill the emptiness he now feels.

Verás, él sabe que le quieres. Sabe que esperas pacientemente su llamada y que volverás en cuanto él quiera.

Don’t give him the satisfaction. Don’t do this to yourself. He broke you once, and he will do it again.

The only reason he wants you to come back is because he can’t be alone. Don’t run back to him simply because it is convenient for him.

He will find a reason to break you again. And then, it’s going to be twice as hard to heal from it.

Quiérete tú primero. Ponte a ti primero por una vez. Corre en otra dirección si llama a tu puerta.

Igual que hizo cuando necesitaste que se quedara. Recuérdalo siempre.

Estás enamorado. Eso es completamente natural, lo entiendo.

But don’t you want someone who will appreciate you, value you and ultimately adore you, the way you feel for him now?

El tipo de amor que está dispuesto a ofrecer no es el tipo de amor que mereces. Si vuelves con él, nunca dejarás de preguntarte. Siempre sabrás lo que es capaz de hacer.

Al fin y al cabo, lo has vivido en primera persona. Eso por sí solo nunca te dará tranquilidad. ¿Es eso lo que quieres para ti?

Don’t do it. Protect you heart and say, ‘No.’ Remember that he broke you once already and still has the guts to appear at your door again.

Please, don’t go back to false hope again. Don’t go back to fake promises, lies and tears.

Don’t go back to his games and tricks. You deserve so much more than him.

I know it’s scary to hear this now because you feel like you are at a crossroads. I know you are afraid of being alone if you don’t take him back.

You might even believe him when he tells you he’s a changed man and that leaving you the first time was the biggest mistake of his life.

Pero, por favor, sé valiente y ten en cuenta tus propios sentimientos y tu felicidad.

After some time, you will realize that saying, ‘No’ to him was the best decision of your life.