Not every relationship can work and that’s a fact.
People usually need to get things wrong several times to get it right.
But what can really affect your love life is no one wanting to date you.
Find out what the reasons are why people won’t date you according to your zodiac sign and get an idea of how to fix the issues you might have stopping you from having a more fulfilling dating life.
1. ARIES
People are scared to date you because you’re way too spontaneous.
Planning for anything that includes you can be hard since no one can ever know what to expect from you.
When someone is building a serious relationship, they expect the person they are committing to to be more dependable.
Another thing that makes it hard for people to date you is your inability to compromise.
Letting someone else get what they want from time to time won’t hurt you.
2. TAURUS
Let’s just put it out there: you are a control freak.
You want things done and you want them done your way.
Loosening up would do wonders for your love life.
Hardly anyone wants their partner to be THAT uptight.
You can be fun but you need to let go of your inhibitions and show your potential partner that you have a side that’s more ‘girlfriend’ and less ‘mom’.
3. GEMINI
Your ups and downs are impossible to handle!
Even though they make you fun, they also make you hard to date.
Being one person one day and another one the next is a lot to take for anyone.
Also, you lack decisiveness.
Given your character, you need to decide what it is that you want and try to keep your behavior as consistent as possible.
4. CANCER
While you can be closed off to meeting new people, that’s not always the case but one thing seems to be a consistent issue with you—you dwell on past relationships.
Once you break things off with someone and time passes, you start idealizing that relationship and feeling skeptical toward new ones.
Leave your ex in the past and open up to new people.
5. LEO
Being the center of attention is a must for you.
Sadly, the person you’re with wants to be your partner and not an accessory to your glory.
Having a partner means that the spotlight is as much on them as it is on you and you usually can’t let that be.
Unless you learn that you can’t be the brightest star in the sky at all times, it will be hard for anyone to commit to you.
6. VIRGO
Seriously, not even you can live up to your own high standards. You need to lower them a bit.
Stop overthinking, try to be a bit more casual and simply be yourself (the ‘self’ you never let out of the walls you’ve put up).
Once you get rid of your insecurities, your attentiveness and other charming qualities will shine.
7. LIBRA
You hate to be alone and are actually rarely available for dating as there’s usually already someone by your side.
Being afraid of standing on your own can make you miss the real deal because you being taken by the wrong person scares them off.
You need to realize that you deserve your big, breathtaking love to happen.
8. SCORPIO
Jealous. Negative. Pessimistic. This might be a bit too hard on you but you need to hear it.
You have to work hard on learning to trust people more.
Don’t start imagining everything that can go wrong from the very first date.
Relax and think positively.
One of these days, the right person will come along to surprise you and chase away all your bad thoughts but they won’t be able to do that if you don’t let them.
9. SAGITTARIUS
You never truly commit to people, do you?
You’re too afraid that if you get to know someone, that person will become boring and you need them to be interesting.
Invest a bit more of your time into your relationships and stop pulling yourself away.
The right person will fascinate you and surprise you every day.
Be a tiny bit more predictable and simply stick around.
10. CAPRICORN
No one wants to date you because you have an idealized image of what your partner should look like.
You want that person to adapt perfectly to your lifestyle and your job.
Let me break this to you—hardly anyone ends up with the person they imagine they should end up with and your partner will almost never be able to simply slide into your life and change nothing in it.
Love doesn’t play by the rules and you shouldn’t either. Loosen up!
11. AQUARIUS
You enjoy spending time on your own or with your friends but that hardly leaves any space for a new person to enter your life.
You are excited to meet new people but tend not to trust them until you’ve become close to them.
Finding someone who truly understands you is quite hard and those who don’t understand you don’t want to date you because you seem too hard to get.
12. PISCES
Being that charming and romantic can be scary too, you know.
Imagine that you meet a girl/boy who seems too perfect.
What seems too perfect to be true usually is just that, right?
It scares people off as they think your behavior is fake.
They usually think you are lying to impress and seduce them and won’t let themselves fall into that trap.
Take it down a notch and show people your less romantic, more ‘out of love’ self.
