1. If you don’t act like an adult.
No one wants a child by their side. He needs a strong and independent woman who knows what she wants. Okay, being goofy is cute but only to some extent.
Maybe at the beginning, he’ll find it attractive and funny, but as your relationship moves forward, he’ll get tired of it.
2. If you are not honest.
Honesty is one of the most important things when you want to start a relationship. If you’re being who you really are and he likes you, then you don’t have to be scared of anything.
But, if you’re being dishonest and pretending to be something that you’re not, he’ll see through it sooner or later.
3. If you’re acting like something you’re not.
You need to love yourself because only then someone will be able to love you.
Don’t pretend to be someone else because you’ll get sick of pretending. And as time goes on, you’ll be a different person from who he fell in love with, and he’ll probably lose interest.
4. If you don’t give him space.
Guys are like that. When they need some time alone, they will retreat into their man cave, looking for some solitude to gather their thoughts.
If you push him and bother him to tell you what’s wrong with him, you’ll only push him further away. Give him some space.
5. If you don’t bring the excitement.
Never allow your relationship to enter a rut. Never allow yourself to be boring and do the same things from day to day. You have to have some excitement and do something different in your relationship every now and then.
Try something new, go somewhere you’ve never been to. It will keep him interested and head over heels in love with you.
6. If you forget your friends.
You have to have a life outside your relationship. Hang out with your friends and let him hang out with his. It’s healthy for your relationship that both of you are not each other’s everything.
Believe it or not, he could get fed up with you and the other way around.
7. If you play hard to get.
Guys love the chase, but it the chase takes up all of their time, they are probably going to give up at some point.
I know that you want someone to work their way to get to you, but if you’re acting too distant, they can give up because they aren’t even sure you like them anymore.
8. If you’re insanely jealous.
A tiny bit of jealousy is more than okay.
It just means that you really care about him and the fear of losing him kicks in, so you act that way. But if you become pathologically jealous, you become obsessed and clingy.
If you’re checking his every move, it is extremely suffocating and painful. He won’t take it for long and will probably just lose interest.
9. If you play games.
Manipulation is unhealthy. Sometimes you have to accept that not everything can go your way and the way you like it. So, if you’re playing games and using manipulation to make him do stuff, he’ll get sick of it because it’s disrespectful and it hurts.
You have to take his feelings into consideration and work things out or achieve a compromise like two mature adults.
10. If you’re always at his disposal.
You have to keep your genuine self and do things that make you happy. Never do things you don’t like just because he wants you to or because he likes it. Never let anyone take control over your life.
If you lose yourself, you’ll lose his respect and if you lose his respect, soon he’ll lose interest in you.
11. If you’re clingy.
Women did this hundreds of years ago, but it was different then. They didn’t have any rights, so they had to ‘stick to their man’ if they wanted anything done. But today when you can have anything you want, you don’t need men and the best thing you could do is to let them breathe.
Give them space and don’t suffocate them because if you do, they will feel their freedom is taken away from them and they’ll leave.
12. If you’re not being yourself.
This isn‘t the first time I’ve said this, but it’s because I can’t stress enough how important it is to be yourself. Never pretend to be someone that you’re not because no matter what, you’re beautiful and unique.
You have qualities and traits that no one else has and that’s why you should keep them and nourish them.
Hi everyone!! I’m Maria, but all of my friends call me Mare (meaning the sea in Italian). I was born and raised by the sea in a small town in the Mediterranean. I’m an “accidental” writer and a passionate singer. Alongside with being a mom, I spend my free time doing gigs which my friends never miss. I think that family and friends are the most valuable thing you can have in your life. That is what I see every day when I look at my son and the loving people around me. Would you like to join my little group and become my friend, too?