Ladies, this is as simple as breathing. If a man sees that you are satisfied with your own life, he will want to be a part of it.
So, what you need to do is have an amazing life with a lot of friends and family who support you no matter what you decide.
He needs to see that you are living your life to the fullest, and that you don’t want to change it for anything. That also means that you make a brand out of yourself by being a high-value woman.
In this way, he will fall head over heels for you because he likes the idea of being with a woman who works her ass off to be the best version of herself.