There are some moves in sex that couples want to try but they are afraid of suggesting it, and they do not know that ‘spice’ could bring you much more pleasure in the bedroom.
So release the brakes you have on and try out something new in sex which could make you totally thrilled and it would help you to stop having boring sex.
Start watching sexy TV programs together
Watch porn movies during sex. An adult movie will enhance your sexual desire, especially after a busy and stressful day when such content will be beneficial to fatigue.
If you do not like adult movies, look for some erotic movies.
Send each other a sexy message
The message should be short, maybe a voicemail that lasts five to ten seconds, and take a little step away from your cell phone to make your voice sound like a sensual whisper.
Even if you do not feel too comfortable talking about your partner’s ‘rude’ things, this would be a great step for you.
Open your mouth
So what is the secret of super-exciting sex? Open your mouth.
Not during sex but afterward.
But don’t misunderstand—it does not mean that you will behave like a strict teacher who provides him with a list of everything that was wrong but you will sit down with tea or coffee and talk about exciting details and experiments that will further connect you and satisfy both of you.
Devote yourself more to foreplay
Foreplay is important to every sexual relationship, especially to women. If you want to have excellent sex, focus on the foreplay.
Spend a couple of minutes longer than usual enjoying this game with your partner. In this way, both will be more excited so the sex will be better.
Make the sex unpredictable
Although it is sometimes necessary to plan for sex, the best sex is spontaneous and unpredictable. So sometimes just leave the plans and try to be spontaneous.
The longer you have been in a relationship, the relationship requires ever greater investment and innovation.
So invest in your relationship and always try to do something that you did not do before, especially with sex.
Use some toys
New and unusual things can bring excitement into the bedroom.
Why not try some sexy stuff like a variety of sex toys, lubricants, etc. They will create extra levels of excitement in bed and you will have fun and laugh too.
Just because you are in a long-term relationship it does not mean you have to forget about some of your sexy fantasies.
Talk to your partner openly and discover his imagination and let him tell you what he would like to do in bed . And then get to the action.
Flatter your partner
Confidence is one of the most important elements of sexuality when it comes to sex, and it is precisely women who can make men feel like they are sex gods.
Do not lie and exaggerate, just tell him sincerely what you like about him.
Let him take control in the bedroom
Spice up sex by playing domination games.
Leaving all the control to your partner in the bedroom and following his ‘commands’ can bring you completely new sexual excitement.
But that does not mean that you forget about your own desires.
Walk around in high heels
Do not worry, you do not have to do that for long. Just take ten minutes to try out your new high heels in front of the mirror while he is watching .
If you have inspiration when it comes to thrilling places for sex, like the bathroom at a restaurant, the river bank, the park, or at the top of a skyscraper, tell your partner that.
Sex in a new location is definitely one of the most exciting things you can do to increase your excitement. You can take the car to some secluded parts of the city.
Maybe you’ve already tried it and it’s not interesting to you but then definitely try a riskier location where there is a chance that someone will catch you (but not too big a risk because you still have to let go and enjoy).
It’s even simpler to change the room in your apartment where you normally have sex or in the apartment of someone else.
There are certainly a million places besides your bed where you can have sex. So use them and increase the pleasure.