It is nice when a girl takes care of her man, but if she acts like she is his mom, then it can get a bit awkward.
I am not saying guys don’t like to get spoiled, but if you are preparing his clothes every workday, telling him when to go to have a shower or cleaning up his things, then you are more like a mom and not a girlfriend.
Men simply think that girls like that suffocate them because they always tell them what to do and how to act as if they don’t have common sense. So, if you are doing it, just stop. It can save your relationship.