2. Time

man holding hand on womans shoulder

We need time. Regardless of the chemistry, connection or strong feeling of attraction, there’s no way we will let you in quickly. We need to be sure you’re worthy of our time and our love.

We learned to handle life on our own and letting someone in is truly terrifying.

So, be patient and give us time to figure out if you’re the real deal.

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