How to trigger attraction in him and make him fall for you? What should you do, and how should you behave in order to achieve this?
One of the biggest mistakes women make when they like someone is SHOWING them their affection immediately.
I know it feels like a natural thing to show your affection to someone you really like and to be there for them when they need you, but if you do that, the chances for failing to attract him will be really high.
Let me explain this to you. So, you like this guy, and the first thing that comes to your mind is BEING NICE TO HIM. You shower him with affection.
You’re always present when he needs you, and you might give him some gifts as well to show him how much you care about him.
Whatever you do, you have the feeling that he’s still uninterested or he’s just being polite to you.
And the next step you do is CONVINCE HIM that you’re the right person for him, and he doesn’t know what he’s doing.
After that, you try to find some other ways that might trigger attraction, but it all ends up badly, and you find yourself frustrated, not knowing what you did wrong.
The thing is, all of these things you do (being nice to him, giving him gifts, convincing him) men simply replace with being needy.
If he feels that you need him in order to be happy, he will never be attracted to you. I know it’s hard to accept this, but this is just how they function.
The only way to trigger intense attraction in him is to never let him think that you need him, and this is how you’ll do it.
Enjoy yourself
There’s nothing sexier than a woman who knows how to enjoy herself. Occupy yourself with some interesting hobbies.
Go out with your girls, and simply enjoy the life you’re living.
Enjoy the small things that surround you. You’ll ooze with positivity, and this is a trigger when it comes to making him attracted to you.
If you’re sending a message that you’re having the time of your life and you don’t really need him in order to be happy, he will be inclined to become part of your world.
He will not be able to resist your positivity and beautiful, fun things you have going on in your life.
Tease him
Another trigger to intense attraction in men is teasing them. Men like to be teased because it feels like you’re poking them in order to make them fight even harder in order to win you.
Tease him about the T-shirt he’s wearing or about the last message he sent you.
Subtly make fun of the things he does, and he will find it amusing and at the same time challenging.
He will see that you don’t accept everything he gives you which will make him realize that you know your worth. And this realization is what makes him attracted to you.
Challenge him
Yes. Men are attracted to challenges. They want to show off their strength and capabilities of winning everything and everyone.
If they see you as a challenge, half of your job here is done. Remember that he will be attracted to what you’re not giving him—not to what you are.
So, the best thing to do is to play hard to get from time to time in order to trigger him to realize that you are a challenge.
You want him to realize that you are a high-value woman, and he needs to work hard to win you.
Always be in control
Remember to always be in control of your life because if you’re not, he will think that you need him in order to feel better about yourself, and this will certainly not attract him.
Always be in control of your life, emotions and situations, and this will show him that you are a confident woman who has everything under control in her life.
He will be attracted to you because he will admire you for your strength and independence.
He will want to be part of your life, so that he can show his friends and others what a beautiful and powerful lady he has.
Give him everything bit by bit
Never shower him with excessive affection and attention because this will create a counter effect from what you want.
In order to be a challenge, you have to give him everything bit by bit.
This means you should never tell him everything about you instantly. Give some of your info to him, and keep the rest for some other occasion.
This also applies to physical contact. Always give him a little bit, and make him thirsty for more.
These mysterious scenarios will create an intense attraction in him, and he will appreciate everything you give him, hoping that you’ll come back and give him more of what you’ve got.
