It’s not easy to trust someone, especially after you’ve had a broken heart once someone betrayed you and played you for a fool.
There is no sure way of knowing whether the guy you’re with truly loves you or he is just using you.
That’s why most women choose to be alone rather than to get hurt. It’s not easy to love someone who doesn’t love you back. Actually, not that it’s not easy, it’s horrible.
The only possible outcome of that relationship is you ending up alone and in pain.
The problem comes from when men, for some reason, hide their emotions. They won’t show you that easily how they feel about you because they see it as a sign of weakness.
Someone told them they have to be rough and made out of steel, someone told them feelings are for wusses.
But hiding his feelings doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. There are a plenty of signs that indicate that he actually has deep feelings for you, but he is a bit too clumsy or afraid to show them.
1. He texts you every day
This goes for especially if he texts you in the morning. This is a bulletproof sign that he loves you like crazy.
If you are the first thing that pops into his mind when he gets up in the morning, then you don’t have to worry about anything.
He just can’t help but wish you a good morning. When people are in love, they don’t have much self-control and they will do things that they normally wouldn’t.
Maybe he doesn’t want to look like he’s smothering you and he wants to restrain himself from contacting you, but he simply can’t help himself.
2. He is honest with you
He will never lie to you even if not lying means trouble for him. He isn’t able to look you in the eyes if he’s hiding something big.
Don’t confuse honesty with those little white lies, we all do that, and they can’t do any harm whatsoever. I’m talking about serious stuff.
His conscience won’t let him lie to you and you can be sure of that. Even if you get brutally mad, he will take that risk and tell you the truth.
You have to be aware of the fact that you have a keeper on your hands.
3. He wants to spend time with you
Every second he gets, he wants to spend with you. He would rather use his free time to be with you than doing something for himself. This isn’t just ordinary hanging out.
If he wants to involve you more in his personal life, it means that there might be something there. This is definitely a sign that his feelings for you are deep, that he loves you.
4. He distances himself from other girls
This is whether they are old girlfriends or girls trying to talk to him when he’s out.
He doesn’t want to do anything stupid to jeopardize your relationship because he cares too much.
He has broken off contact with his ex-girlfriends because he knows he doesn’t need a backup. He knows he has you and you are more than enough for him.
5. He is protective of you
He will make sure that no one and nothing ever touches you. He is going to be there for you when you are feeling down. If someone does you wrong, he will flip because someone has messed with his baby.
He will have the need to keep you safe in his arms and you will love it because he won’t overdo it. He will know just how much of him you need.
6. He wants to impress you
He wants to prove himself to you constantly because he wants to be sure he is a match for you.
He thinks of you as the most perfect and the most beautiful woman in the world and it’s hard to keep up with that. He doesn’t want you to get bored and leave.
7. He treats you like a lady
He wants you to have everything you can think of. He wants you to be the happiest person alive. He wants you to feel and be treated like a lady because you are one.
He knows that the person he cares about has to be satisfied and he will go the extra mile to make it happen.