Men are sometimes…let’s say, easy to read. They can never relax and always look like they are on their toes waiting for something to happen. They don’t even realize the way they act when they are guilty.
Like those videos of dogs that ripped their owner’s pillows pretending they don’t know what happened. You can simply see it in their eyes. It may sound funny but it’s the same with men.
Try being relaxed and acting as usual while you’re hiding something big and leading two lives at the same time. I bet you wouldn’t be very laid back and successful in it.
A lot of these things could be only a game of guessing so the best solution would be to talk openly to your partner about everything that gives you doubts and insecurities. If he becomes defensive and angry, there’s your answer!
Don’t forget that every time you can’t silence the voice in your head and the feeling in your gut, maybe you shouldn’t. The universe gave women intuition for a reason. Use it wisely and to your advantage!