8. Emotional codependency is your archenemy

BySelma June
young couple in hug

We’re all human beings. I know it’s difficult for you to control your emotions, even when you know you should.

But, it’s one thing to fall in love with a guy, while becoming addicted to him is something else. Emotional codependency is the worst trap you can fall into – trust me on this one.

If you’re wondering how to get a guy to chase you, the answer is: don’t become too needy.

I know you can’t wait for your next date, but don’t let him see that. Don’t let his text messages dictate your mood.

Most importantly, never allow your potential breakup to become your biggest fear. Remember: you don’t need this guy – you want him in your life.

A man cannot be the center of your life. If he sees that you’ve put him in first place, he’ll think that his mission is done, and he’ll stop going after you.

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