10 cosas que haces que te hacen tan intimidante

1. Your goal won’t be to please everybody

Hay personas importantes en tu vida y otras que lo son menos, y desde luego no estarás ahí para complacer a todo el mundo.

Te quedas con tus amigos, que lo saben todo de ti y nunca te juzgan por nada, pero los demás tienen que demostrar su valía si quieren ser tus amigos.

And you don’t do that because you are a cold-blooded bitch but rather because you treat people the way they treat you. You have some rules you stick to and nobody can make you change your mind if you don’t want to.

2. Vives según tus propias reglas

You know that it is a harsh world outside and that’s why you decided to make some rules when it comes to people. You don’t get attached very easily and if someone wants to hang out with you, they have to be a really good and honest person.

You don’t put up with any shit and you don’t tolerate people taking advantage of you. You have been hurt many times before and it all made you cleverer. You have felt all the bad emotions on your skin and now you want to enjoy life and surround yourself with high-value people.

3. You can’t stand chatting

Questions like: “How was your day?” or, “What are you going to cook today?” are things that can make you totally lose control. If there is one thing you hate in the world, that is small talk.

You feel that people talk to you just because they have to and not because they want to. And for you, it is better to keep your mouth shut than to talk if you don’t feel like it.

You would rather talk about some deeper things because they make you feel good. During small talk, you don’t exchange anything important but when talking about some serious topics, you can actually learn new things.

4. Pareces arrogante pero no eres así en absoluto

You are a strong person who knows how much you bring to the table and you won’t put up with any shit. That’s why sometimes people see you as arrogant but the truth is totally different.

Sólo conoces tu valor and you stick to your own rules and morals. You don’t do things you would regret later and you know to say you are sorry when you make a mistake.

Simplemente demuestra que tu personalidad es fuerte y que eres una mujer independiente antes que cualquier otra cosa.

5. Eres valiente

The truth is that you have a giant, warm heart and you are brave to the core. There isn’t anything you are afraid of because you know that the sooner you confront your fears, the better it will be for you.

You are not afraid to get out of your comfort zone and you are not afraid of new things. You cope with life’s problems like they are some sort of messages and you handle them with a cool head.

6. You don’t tolerate excuses

You simply don’t want to put up with excuses because if you do, others will see you as a weak person. That’s why you always give your best but you also expect the same from others.

Respetas a las personas que te respetan y siempre intentas tener una buena relación con ellas. Si alguien intenta hacer el ridículo, you will put them in their place and you won’t feel bad about it.

De hecho, sentirás que has hecho lo mejor para ti.

7. Siempre consigues lo que quieres

For you, it is not a problem to say, “No,” to others. In fact, that is what you do if you see that they don’t respect you. You are a person who likes balance more than anything so if others behave well toward you, you will behave well toward them as well.

You will never say, “Yes,” to someone if that will mean saying, “No,” to yourself. That is how you function and you are totally okay with the relationships you have with others.

8. Tienes una actitud de malote

Cuando entras en una habitación, todo el mundo se calla debido a tu actitud temeraria. Before you say anything, people don’t know whether you will put out a gun or you will smile at them.

You look very serious but it is because you don’t like to smile without a reason. But when you laugh, it is always genuine and you do it from the bottom of your heart.

Tal vez seas una persona fría por fuera, pero eres un verdadero ángel por dentro.

9. Trabaja duro para conseguir sus objetivos

You are known to be a workaholic and you don’t mind going the extra mile to achieve your goals. But once you get to where you want to be, you won’t let anyone convince you that you are not worthy or enough.

Toda tu vida es una especie de lucha para ti pero, al final, haces que las condiciones sean estupendas para que puedas disfrutarla.

10. Haces feliz a la gente buena

You always give all of yourself to make good people happy. And evil ones will not try to get close to you because they are so intimidated by you. They know you won’t let them hurt you because you know how to defend yourself.

Te sientes especialmente atraído por los necesitados, los niños y los ancianos. Si hay algo que puedas hacer para protegerlos y mejorar sus vidas, lo harás. Realmente tienes un corazón de oro.