10 cosas que un hombre inseguro hace a la mujer que ama
Empieza como un maravilloso cuento de hadas. Te hace volver a creer en el amor y en que no todos los hombres son malos. Te compra regalos y te dedica toda su atención.
Until the moment you start to notice that the amount of attention he’s giving you isn’t really healthy.
At one point, all of your time and energy is being devoted to telling him how much you love him and reassuring him that you won’t leave him. Dear, your man might be insecure AF.
Hay hombres inseguros por todas partes, y para saber si el tuyo es uno de ellos, hemos enumerado 10 cosas que hacen todos los hombres inseguros:
He doesn’t have a life outside your relationship
He’s the kind of guy who’s simply sitting at home waiting for you to come back.
Well, this might be an exaggeration, but the biggest sign of insecurity is if he’s devoting all of his time and energy into your relationship out of the fear of losing you.
It’s cute and all, but to not have any ambitions and dreams besides your partner and to not hang out with anyone but them is a bit strange, don’t you think?
Se pone celoso muy rápido
Acabas de mirar en dirección a otro hombre (incluso puede ser tu buen amigo) y se pone celoso enseguida.
You know how women get jealous when they’re insecure? Well, it’s the same deal with men.
Al principio, puede que te haga sentir querida y especial, pero puede llegar al punto de que monte una escena porque te quedaste una hora más tarde en el trabajo para terminar un proyecto.
Incluso se pone celoso por el tiempo que pasas con tus amigas en vez de con él.
Te acusa de engaño
Puede que incluso saque a colación a sus ex y cómo le engañaron también, diciéndote que nunca será feliz.
Pasa de acusarte de tener una aventura con un compañero de trabajo a decir que simplemente buscas a alguien mejor que él.
He’s paranoid even of the way you smiled at the waiter.
He can’t take criticism
If you try to tell him that he’s being overly attached and that his behavior isn’t OK, he might turn it all against you.
If you tell him that you need some time on your own, that he’s being too possessive and that he needs to calm down, he might do just the opposite.
Because insecure people can’t take even the nicest, most constructive criticism. They simply can’t handle it when people point out their flaws.
Su felicidad depende de ti
It’s OK to be sensitive to the feelings of your partner but his feelings completely depend on you!
If you’re happy, loving and caring toward him and if you’re devoting all of your attention to him, he will be happy, too.
If you’re trying to finish something for work and you have a lot on your mind, so you have to be alone to finish all of that, he might simply get depressed and/or angry at you.
Te ahoga con la atención
It was cute at the beginning of the relationship but now it’s just getting weird.
He spends so much money on gifts that you’re sometimes worried if he just spent his entire salary on you.
He’s trying to make you feel bad about the thought of leaving him and he’s trying to buy your attention.
Te dice que te quiere enseguida
Out of the fear of losing you, he admits his ‘undying’ love for you. It takes time to get to know someone enough to actually feel love for them.
It’s not a feeling you develop after just two dates. It needs time to fall for someone.
You’re his world
You’re the center of his universe. Toda su vida orbita a tu alrededor.
At first, it’s very flattering because you feel very special, but what if you decide to leave him? His world falls apart.
He falls apart because you’re his one and only world.
Necesita validación constante
He wants you to tell him how much you love him and that’s he’s worthy of love. He wants you to talk about what your future will look like, to take away his fear of being left.
A veces sus necesidades van incluso más allá.
You might tell him how good he looks in his new shirt but he simply won’t believe you. You need to constantly remind him that he’s attractive to you.
Quiere comprobar tu teléfono
He will ask for your phone when he sees that you’re texting someone. He might even look over your shoulder if you’ve smiled while answering a text.
He will constantly think about how you’ve found someone better and that you’re going to leave him.
Even if you show him everything, he will still think that you’re hiding something.
