10 cosas que hacen las mujeres y molestan a los hombres

1. “I am fine!”

Most women have this habit of saying, “I am fine”, even when they are far from it. A woman says this when she is upset about something and she feels like her man should know what it’s about, especially if he is the one who made her angry.

But the thing is, a man doesn’t know. His brain works in a different way. If he did something to upset you, you should tell him straight-up. Saying, “I am fine!” won’t solve anything and it would annoy any man.

2. Compararle con tu ex

A lot of women do this. It’s a natural occurrence but it is a conversation you should only be having with yourself or your best friend.

There is no man in this world who enjoys hearing about an ex of a woman he cares for, let alone being compared to him. Avoid doing this. Leave your ex in the past because that’s where he belongs, especially when you are in a new relationship.

3. Una mente desconfiada

There are women out there who are jealous by nature. They will make a mountain out of a molehill. They don’t like any female presence near the man that they are dating and that’s just irrational.

Podría haber amigas que estaban allí mucho antes de que él entrara en una relación o algún compañero de trabajo del que es amigo y no hay ningún significado más profundo en ello. Si un hombre no ha hecho nada para que te cuestiones su lealtad, le molestará que se cuestionen todos sus movimientos. Por no mencionar que una extensa celos de cualquier lado sofocará una relación muy pronto.

4. Inconsistencia

When a woman says she is OK with a man doing something and then after a while she gets upset with him for doing the exact same thing, the next time it will drive him crazy. A man doesn’t understand those sudden changes of heart. They like to keep things simple.

Si dijiste algo o tomaste una decisión en un momento determinado, un hombre espera que te ciñas a ella. Cambiar de opinión tan a menudo como te cambias de calcetines solo les pondrá de los nervios.

5. Buscar demasiada atención

It’s natural to want attention from a man but some women want just a bit too much of it. She expects her man to dedicate all of his space and time to her. So she wants to text 24/7, she expects to see him every day and for him not to have a life besides her.

And that’s the fastest way to lose a guy. A woman who acts ike this is perceived as pegajoso y molesto.

6. Quejándose de cuánto tiempo pasa con sus amigos

Male bonds are very tight. Men value their friendships and they always put their friends as a priority but that’s something that shouldn’t have an effect on a relationship.

If he is spending enough time with you, there is no reason to get upset with him for spending just as much time with his friends. He will only get agitated and probably ask you why you aren’t spending time with your friends too.

7. Intentar cambiarlos

Lo primero es lo primero: nadie debería cambiar a nadie mientras está en una relación. Todos tenemos nuestras perfecciones y defectos. No hay ser humano en este planeta que responda bien a ser tratado como algo que necesita remodelación.

A woman who tries to change a man to fit her needs won’t get far into a relationship with him. If neither side can accept one another for who they really are, they shouldn’t be in a relationship even to begin with.

8. Pedir cumplidos y luego descartarlos

For example, a woman will ask, “Do I look OK?” when trying on a new outfit and a man will say something like, “Of course you do,” but then she says, ” No. To be honest, I don’t like it”. The problem here is that there is no right answer because she thinks in either case that he is being insincere or he doesn’t care.

He says what he thinks and that’s that. He doesn’t want to explain for hours that he is being sincere. If you are in this situation, take the compliment or ask for advice from a friendly man; they don’t like to give opinions about things they usually don’t know anything about. In his eyes, you probably always look great, so there is no need to ask.

9. Traer a colación el pasado

If a woman uses a man’s past mistakes to make a point, that’s simply not fair. If those are things you already dealt with and you gave him your forgiveness for, he will see that you are just guilt-tripping him and he can’t be happy about that.

There is no point in rubbing his face in the past when it’s already all over. If you chose to forgive him in the first place, then let it be.

10. Compartir detalles íntimos

Las relaciones son entre dos personas y algunas cosas es mejor dejarlas en privado, especially your sexual life. Most men are self-conscious when it comes to your sex life and they don’t want your friends to know if he is any good in bed or not.

Definitivamente se enfadará si se da cuenta de que has compartido con tu amigo algo que él cree que sólo debería quedar entre vosotros dos.