10 cose che le donne fanno e che gli uomini trovano estremamente fastidiose

1. “I am fine!”

Most women have this habit of saying, “I am fine”, even when they are far from it. A woman says this when she is upset about something and she feels like her man should know what it’s about, especially if he is the one who made her angry.

But the thing is, a man doesn’t know. His brain works in a different way. If he did something to upset you, you should tell him straight-up. Saying, “I am fine!” won’t solve anything and it would annoy any man.

2. Paragonarlo al vostro ex

A lot of women do this. It’s a natural occurrence but it is a conversation you should only be having with yourself or your best friend.

There is no man in this world who enjoys hearing about an ex of a woman he cares for, let alone being compared to him. Avoid doing this. Leave your ex in the past because that’s where he belongs, especially when you are in a new relationship.

3. Una mente sospettosa

There are women out there who are jealous by nature. They will make a mountain out of a molehill. They don’t like any female presence near the man that they are dating and that’s just irrational.

Potrebbe aver amicizie femminili che c'erano molto prima che lui iniziasse una relazione o qualche collega di lavoro con cui è amico e non c'è un significato più profondo. Se un uomo non ha fatto nulla per farvi mettere in dubbio la sua fedeltà, si arrabbierà se ogni sua mossa viene messa in discussione. Per non parlare del fatto che un'ampia gelosia da qualsiasi parte, soffocherà una relazione molto presto.

4. Incoerenza

When a woman says she is OK with a man doing something and then after a while she gets upset with him for doing the exact same thing, the next time it will drive him crazy. A man doesn’t understand those sudden changes of heart. They like to keep things simple.

Se avete detto qualcosa o preso una decisione a un certo punto, un uomo si aspetta che la manteniate. Cambiare idea con la stessa frequenza con cui si cambiano i calzini gli darà solo sui nervi.

5. Cercare troppa attenzione

It’s natural to want attention from a man but some women want just a bit too much of it. She expects her man to dedicate all of his space and time to her. So she wants to text 24/7, she expects to see him every day and for him not to have a life besides her.

And that’s the fastest way to lose a guy. A woman who acts ike this is perceived as appiccicoso e fastidioso.

6. Lamentarsi di quanto tempo passa con i suoi amici

Male bonds are very tight. Men value their friendships and they always put their friends as a priority but that’s something that shouldn’t have an effect on a relationship.

If he is spending enough time with you, there is no reason to get upset with him for spending just as much time with his friends. He will only get agitated and probably ask you why you aren’t spending time with your friends too.

7. Cercare di cambiarli

Prima di tutto, nessuno dovrebbe cambiare nessuno durante una relazione. Ognuno di noi ha le sue perfezioni e i suoi difetti. Non c'è nessun essere umano su questo pianeta che risponda bene all'essere trattato come qualcosa che deve essere rimodellato.

A woman who tries to change a man to fit her needs won’t get far into a relationship with him. If neither side can accept one another for who they really are, they shouldn’t be in a relationship even to begin with.

8. Chiedere complimenti e poi scartarli

For example, a woman will ask, “Do I look OK?” when trying on a new outfit and a man will say something like, “Of course you do,” but then she says, ” No. To be honest, I don’t like it”. The problem here is that there is no right answer because she thinks in either case that he is being insincere or he doesn’t care.

He says what he thinks and that’s that. He doesn’t want to explain for hours that he is being sincere. If you are in this situation, take the compliment or ask for advice from a friendly man; they don’t like to give opinions about things they usually don’t know anything about. In his eyes, you probably always look great, so there is no need to ask.

9. Riportare in auge il passato

If a woman uses a man’s past mistakes to make a point, that’s simply not fair. If those are things you already dealt with and you gave him your forgiveness for, he will see that you are just guilt-tripping him and he can’t be happy about that.

There is no point in rubbing his face in the past when it’s already all over. If you chose to forgive him in the first place, then let it be.

10. Condividere dettagli intimi

Le relazioni sono tra due persone e Alcune cose è meglio lasciarle private, especially your sexual life. Most men are self-conscious when it comes to your sex life and they don’t want your friends to know if he is any good in bed or not.

Sarà sicuramente infastidito se si accorgerà che avete condiviso con il vostro amico qualcosa che secondo lui dovrebbe rimanere solo tra voi due.