10 señales de que no volverá a llamarte

Las citas son, sin duda, una gran jungla incierta que siempre te obligará a pensar demasiado y a pasar horas interminables esperando esas esperadas llamadas y mensajes.

So, you’ve been on a date with a guy you’re crazy about, you’re one hundred percent sure that the date was successful, and it turns out you’re right about it.

Or you’ve been on a date with a guy you’re crazy about and even though you think the date was successful, you’ve never received a call from him.

Entonces empiezas a pensar en lo que podría haber salido mal o en lo que podrías haber hecho para arruinar las posibilidades de que te invitara a salir. una segunda cita.

But, the worst part of all is stubbornly waiting next to your phone and still hoping that the guy will call you, when deep down in your soul, you know that you’re just postponing disappointment.

Para evitarte esta embriagadora expectación la próxima vez que te encuentres esperando una llamada, aquí tienes 10 señales de que él no estará volviendo a llamarte, so you definitely shouldn’t bother wasting your time on waiting for him!

1. No hay química en la conversación

Ahora bien, ¿qué significa tener química para conversar? En realidad significa tener algo de lo que hablar.

When your conversation flows and there’s simply no space for awkward moments of silence, then you know you have conversation chemistry.

But, if the majority of your time spent together was filled with awkward silence and forcing of the next topics, then he’ll probably not be calling you back.

2. Argumentos constantes

Es totalmente comprensible que la gente tenga sus propias opiniones sobre determinados temas y, en ese caso, contradecirse resulta inevitable.

But, if there are constant arguments between the two of you on even the most trivial topics, then it is evident that you lack connection. In that case, you shouldn’t be expecting his call.

3. Dijiste algo malo (o lo dijo él)

The date was pretty satisfying until one crucial point where you said something wrong (or he did), there was this awkward silence for a minute or more, and you didn’t know how to escape the embarrassing situation.

The moment you said it, you knew that your date would end badly and you saw it in his eyes as well, but still there was hope that he will call you, even though deep down in your soul you knew he wouldn’t.

4. Mantiene una conversación amistosa pero no coqueta

Si un chico está cien por cien decidido a mantener una conversación amistosa y a evitar cualquier signo de coqueteo, probablemente sus intenciones sean diferentes de lo que podrías haber pensado.

By doing this, he’s subtly letting you know that he likes you on a friendship level, but he’s not really attracted to you on a deeper level, and that is why he won’t want to call you back.

5. Empieza a hablar de lo ocupado que está

If you’ve let him know that you would like to see him again and the moment you said it, he immediately started mentioning how busy he is, then you know he’s just poner excusas so that he doesn’t feel obliged to call you.

Poner excusas está estrechamente relacionado con no estar interesado en una segunda cita. Es su forma de decírtelo educadamente.

6. He isn’t really interested in your life and doesn’t tell you much about his

If a guy is not interested in your life, preferences, hobbies, job, friends and family, and anything else, then he’s not really interested in getting to know you better.

Also, if he refuses to tell you about his life, it also means he’s trying hard to maintain the distance between you because he’s probably only interested in a one night stand.

7. He’s late and he doesn’t give you a warning

If he knew that he was going to be late and he didn’t tell you a shit about it, it means he deliberately decided not to give a fuck about how you will feel about it.

His intentions are definitely not to be trusted and you surely shouldn’t be wasting your time waiting next to your cell phone for his call.

8. Pasa más tiempo mirando alrededor de la habitación que tú

If you’re wondering how to decipher a fuckboy, just look at his behavior when you’re in a public place. Do his eyes often wander and does he find it hard to concentrate on you?

If yes, it means he’s not really interested in pasar tiempo contigo, his only intention is to get into your pants. And if he doesn’t call you, you should consider yourself lucky.

9. Camina delante de ti en tu cita

If a guy evidently avoids walking next to you or avoids holding hands on a date, he’s trying to be “invisible.” He walks in front of you because, obviously, he doesn’t want to be seen on a date with you.

And he won’t be calling you so that he doesn’t ruin his future potential dates with other women. Lame, I know.

10. Sin beso de buenas noches

Es realmente difícil para cualquier hombre que haya disfrutado pasando tiempo contigo no dar un beso de buenas noches al final de una cita.

Summarized, if a man is genuinely interested in seeing you again and again, and if he intends to call you, he will give you a goodnight kiss without you even reminding him of it. But, if he’s not, he will just awkwardly leave the premises.