10 señales de que para él sólo eres un botín
Don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against the concept of a booty call.
But when you want a serious relationship, when you’re ready to commit to your lover, because you see how compatible you are, being a booty call isn’t really something you want.
If both partners are defining the relationship like that, then it’s not a problem.
When the guy in the relationship doesn’t want to commit or isn’t willing to take the relationship further, even though you are starting to fall in love with him, it can get really painful.
Without having to be direct with him about this topic, there are some signs you can look out for to know for sure if you’re only a booty call to him.
He doesn’t text you at a reasonable hour
He won’t text you throughout the day to see if you’re doing okay, he won’t even call to ask to see you during the day.
He will probably text you past midnight and he’s probably horny.
He probably couldn’t find another girl to go home with him, so he calls his plan B—you.
Todas tus citas acaban en el dormitorio
You know that you might be his booty call if your ‘dates’ don’t include walks, restaurants or bars (or anything related to you two being in public), but rather just a little chat with you before he takes you to his apartment.
He’s never there for you
Simplemente desaparece cada vez que necesitas apoyo emocional o mental.
He doesn’t want to know about your problems and if you start talking about them he will just say that he has other plans and that he needs to rush off.
When you call him saying that you’re not feeling too good, he might just tell you that he’s busy.
You’ve never met any of his friends or family
He doesn’t include you in group activities. Ever. He doesn’t want you to be around his friends, because they might know by now that you’re nothing but a hit-and-run’ girl.
And also, in case his family don’t live halfway across the country, he makes sure you don’t cross paths with them.
Si nunca has visto a ninguno de los miembros de su familia ni has conocido a ninguno de sus amigos, puede que para él no seas más que un botín.
Todo gira en torno al sexo
If every time you try talking with him or even texting him, he turns it into an opportunity for him to tell you how much he looks forward to hooking up with you, then you’re just a booty call.
Por supuesto, en las relaciones, los miembros de la pareja tienden a ponerse cachondos cuando están separados y hablan de cómo les gustaría tener sexo ahora mismo, pero si everything he’s talking about refers to sex, then there’s a problem.
Nunca se queda a dormir
He doesn’t want to cuddle after sex and he’s gone right after it’s done. He simply never stays the night.
You’ve seen him flirt with other women
Lo hace constantemente. Delante de ti, a tus espaldas, e incluso puede estar flirteando con tus amigas.
Además, de alguna manera, siempre menciona a otras mujeres en las conversaciones.
He may not be dating them, but he makes sure that you know that you’re not the only woman in his life.
He doesn’t want to talk about serious topics with you
He just runs away or he puts up walls so you can’t talk to him.
He doesn’t want to talk to you about your relationship because you might find out that he doesn’t have feelings for you and you’ll bring him into an awkward situation.
You’re simply not important enough for him to talk with you about this, because, believe me, he won’t shed a tear if you leave.
He doesn’t plan a future together
He never talks about your future, and he doesn’t even plan dates in advance.
Lo único que hace es llamarte y exigirte que le veas enseguida, porque planearlo puede darte la falsa idea de que realmente le gustas.
Cambia su comportamiento después del sexo
Before you lie down with him, he’s the cutest, sweetest guy alive, but right after he gets what he wants, he turns into a real asshole. This is the biggest warning sign out there.
