10 señales evidentes de que finge que no le gustas (y 8 razones)
En busca de signs he’s pretending not to like you? Bueno, si la mayoría de los signos a continuación resuenan con su comportamiento, entonces usted sabe he’s scared of how much he likes you.
So, you like this guy (okay, let’s not fool ourselves, you’re crazy about him), but he’s sending you mixed signals and you don’t really know what’s going on in his head.
En un momento piensas está enamorado de ti en secreto, and the next you’re not quite sure he knows you exist. And that’s how you ended up here searching for signs he’s pretending not to like you, right?
¿Los chicos fingen que no les gustas?
Yes, guys sometimes pretend not to like you. They try hard to convince you that they don’t care about you even though deep down inside they are crazy about you and their actions prove that as well.
Te vuelven loco con tanto fingimiento, haciéndote dudar: ¿Le gusto? o qué demonios? But, lucky for you, he can’t hide his body language signs and other revealing signals that show le gustas totalmente!
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And, yes, there are many reasons why a guy might pretend not to like you (which we’ll also cover below, so stay tuned)!
¿Cómo saber si oculta lo que siente por ti?
You know he’s hiding his feelings for you if he’s displaying positive body language signs a tu alrededor, recuerda todo lo que dices, te hace MUCHAS preguntas personales, responder siempre a tus mensajes ASAP, or notices things you don’t expect anyone to notice.
There are lots of other signs that indicate he’s pretending not to like you and you’ll find them below.
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Algunos señales de que le gustas a un chico but he’s trying not to show it are mysterious and the others are pretty obvious, but you probably haven’t been paying too much attention to them due to all that confusion.
(Honestly, who’s got time for overthinking and deciphering the enigma of a man’s brain).
To help you understand what’s really going on in his head, here is a list of clear signs he’s pretending not to like you, but the truth is he really does like you A LOT!
10 Clear Signs He’s Pretending Not To Like You
He’s always showing up where you are
Vas al centro comercial y ahí está, das un paseo y ahí está justo detrás de ti.
When this happened for the first time, you were convinced that it was a pure coincidence, but every time after that you started to suspect that maybe he’s creeping on you.
Or maybe he’s a ninja with a teleportation superpower, so he always manages to show up right where you are.
Whatever it is, all you need to know is that this is a good sign that he’s pretending not to like you! And do you know how I know? Because the exact same thing happened to my best friend.
El chico con el que mi amiga salía desde hacía algún tiempo siempre le enviaba señales contradictorias. Después de algún tiempo, ella se dio cuenta de que él siempre aparecía donde ella estaba.
After that, he finally found some courage and admitted that he liked her a lot but didn’t know how to tell her because he was really shy and was miedo al rechazo.
Puede que a usted le ocurra lo mismo, así que ¡mantenga los ojos bien abiertos!
Muestra signos positivos de lenguaje corporal a su alrededor
Positive body language signs are subtle signs he really likes you, so you can’t ignore this no matter how hard you try.
Las señales incluyen:
- Mirando fijamente
- Contacto visual prolongado
- Inclinarse al hablarte como he’s preparing to kiss you
- Señalando sus pies hacia ti
- Enderezar su postura para parecer más masculino, etc.
Muestra todos estos signos a nivel subconsciente, lo que significa que no puede influir en ellos.
When you’re talking to him, he can’t help but lean in to absorb your every word, to straighten his posture whenever he sees you – he’s not even aware he’s doing any of it.
So, that guy at the office, or coffee shop might pretend that he doesn’t like you with his words, but his body language will eventually reveal his true feelings for you!
Véase también: 17 señales genuinas del lenguaje corporal de que le gustas en secreto
He’s a tease master
Las bromas suelen relacionarse con la inmadurez, pero lo cierto es que cuando un chico te toma el pelo, significa he’s totally smitten with you. It’s also one of the legit signs he’s pretending not to like you.
Ésta tiene su origen en la edad temprana, cuando los chicos se burlan de las chicas en el colegio y las chicas les persiguen para contraatacar y vengarse.
Este instinto burlón se mantiene en la edad adulta, pero el concepto es un poco diferente. A medida que crecen, los hombres suelen burlarse solo con palabras.
They try to embarrass you or they become stubborn not wanting to admit that you’re right about something, so they do things that annoy you.
Me identifico totalmente con este tema a nivel personal porque me ha pasado recientemente.
Cuando estaba en una semicita con un chico al que le gusto (lo admitió unos días antes), literalmente se burló de mí toda la noche, haciendo cosas infantiles para que me sintiera avergonzada. (Incluso tuve que pegarle un par de veces porque se pasó).
Sí, cuando a los chicos les gusta alguien, se convierten en un maestro de las bromas en cuestión de segundos, así que asegúrate de prestar atención a esto también.
Te hace muchas preguntas personales
Basándome en mi experiencia personal y en la de personas cercanas a mí, puedo decir que hay dos razones por las que un chico te haría muchas preguntas personales.
It’s either one of the following:
a) He’s an emotional psychopath o un jugador y quiere saber hasta el último detalle sobre ti y tu pasado para poder manipularte.
b) He’s totally smitten with you and he genuinely wants to know you better.
If you’re sure that your guy doesn’t belong to the a) crew, then him asking personal questions is definitely one of the signs he’s pretending not to like you.
It’s evident that he wants to know everything about your love life, your previous romantic relationships, relaciones a larga distanciao la nave en la que estuvieras.
He’s probably creating a profile of your personal life in his head and that’s why he needs all the info he can get to reveal your personality, character, and the things you like and dislike.
Y, a veces, puede pasarse (como el tipo burlón que he mencionado antes).
Se fija en cada detalle de ti
If a man notices every detail about you, it means he’s paying close attention to you. He observes your every move, he listens to your every word, and he notices every time you do something new with your appearance.
Sabes que se fija en cada detalle de ti si hace algunas de las siguientes cosas:
- Pasa mucho tiempo elogiándote
- Recuerda lo que mencionó la semana pasada sobre algo importante (o algo totalmente irrelevante)
- Recuerda cada detalle de tu personalidad, trabajo, amigos, familia y vida en general.
Esto es similar a hacer muchas preguntas personales. Te pregunta muchas preguntas para conocerle mejor and he notices every detail about you because he can’t get enough of you.
He wants to memorize everything about you including those “trivial” things that are invisible to others but are a big deal for him.
When men are totally interested in someone, they can’t help but create a special file in their head where they’ll add every update and all the details regarding you and your life.
Su curiosidad es lo que les motiva a hacerlo.
He’s making real effort to impress you
If you’re wondering how to tell if a guy likes you, or if he just sees you as his good friend, you need to pay attention to his efforts!
Si he’s making real effort to impress you in front of his good friends, coworkers and in pretty much every other situation, then you know he’s totally into you.
He can pretend all he wants, but a guy who likes you won’t be able to resist making a serious effort when it comes to impressing you.
Se asegurará de estar siempre impecable de la cabeza a los pies, te hará reír, te asombrará con sus logros y captará tu atención siempre que pueda.
Hará todo eso porque quiere que te fijes en él y que le gustes. ¿Y por qué? Porque tú también le gustas.
If it weren’t so, he would never try hard to win your attention in the first place, so that’s how you know he’s totally and crazily into you!
RELACIONADO: 16 señales evidentes de que tu amigo siente algo por ti
He’s making a real effort to make you jealous
This one is a total classic. When a guy is pretending that he doesn’t like you, he will not only make an effort to impress you, but to make you jealous as well! Why?
Because by making you jealous he’s trying to make you like him. Here are a few things he does to make you jealous:
- Coquetea con otras en las redes sociales y se jacta contigo de ello (para que te des cuenta de que he’s a catch)
- He’s constantly posting new photos with other girls (who are maybe just his female friends)
- He always makes sure to mention his texting endeavors with an interesting girl he’s just met
- Coquetea constantemente con otras personas de su entorno.
He says that the two of you are just friends but he’s proactively trying to make you jealous all the time.
If he’s doing all that, he’s making a real effort to make you jealous for two reasons: to hide that he likes you and to make you like him. How witty and lame at the same time, right?
Te da señales contradictorias
Un día mantiene un contacto visual prolongado y te envía mensajes de texto todo el día, y al día siguiente te ignora por completo.
One day he even establishes subtle physical contact and the next he barely knows you. If he’s doing this, he’s definitely giving you mixed signals!
And when a guy is giving you mixed signals, it’s usually because he likes you A LOT but he’s struggling to find the right way to show you.
That’s why he sometimes chooses to shower you with affection and gestos románticos únicos y a continuación, se desvanece completamente en el aire.
Sometimes guys get scared of their feelings and that’s when mixed signals come in handy.
He doesn’t have to justify why he did a certain thing and whenever he feels like he showed too much affection, he simply erases it by ignoring your messages or by acting cold.
He will do all this even though deep down in his heart he knows he’s totally crazy about you. Men, right?
Véase también: Las 8 señales mixtas más comunes que envían los hombres y su significado
Siempre saca tiempo para ti
Hay un millón de formas de demostrarte que le gustas, pero ésta es la más poderosa. Si un hombre siempre saca tiempo para ti, sabes que he’s totally into you.
After all, if he weren’t interested in you, he wouldn’t go out of his way to hang out with you and to be there for you when needed. This could be a phone call when you’re sick, encouraging you during tough times, and similar.
If he sometimes ignores his best friends to spend time with you, it’s not about him just being nice. It’s much more than that. He doesn’t want you for a booty call, but he wants to be in a relación seria contigo.
He always makes time for you because he genuinely cares no matter how much he pretends that he doesn’t.
Cuando le pides que te ayude con algo, ¿se teletransporta literalmente a tu casa y empieza a ayudarte con ese problema concreto?
When you tell him that you’re bored, does he suggest doing something fun together?
If yes, then you know he’ll always make time for you no matter what and there’s no need to question his intentions because his heart is in the right place.
He’s very responsive online, but reserved in person
¿Tu chico se convierte en una máquina de responder online pero cuando se trata de comunicarse en persona, simplemente se apaga?
He’s probably doing that because he doesn’t know how to behave in your company (because he likes you) and he wants to play it safe by making you think that you’re only good friends.
Esto me pasó hace poco. Conocí a un chico nuevo y tuvimos una gran química de los mensajes de textopero le costaba expresarse en persona.
Así que empecé a preguntarme qué había pasado: ¿He dicho algo malo?
I noticed that whatever I tried, he didn’t seem to reciprocate. He couldn’t maintain eye-contact and his sentences were ultra short.
And then I realized that he was a little bit shy and insecure in person, so he didn’t know how to express himself properly.
Así que decidió ir a lo seguro, mantenerse reservado y esperar lo mejor. Puede que a ti te ocurra lo mismo.
8 señales evidentes de que tu ex finge haberte olvidado
How do you know if your ex is pretending to be over you? Simple. If some or all of the following signs resonate with him, then you know he’s definitely pretending to be over you:
You’re still in contact with your ex-boyfriend
Usually, when two people go their separate ways, they don’t stay in contact with each other.
If your ex-boyfriend texts or calls you regularly, then this is one of the telltale signs he’s pretending to be over you. Otherwise, he wouldn’t bother staying in contact with you and he’d be focused on seguir adelante.
When a guy wants to move on, the first thing he does is delete your number and remove you from all of his social networks. That’s how you know he’s serious about forgetting you.
He’s always around
Wherever you are, he’s there. Do you think this is a pure coincidence (or maybe not)? Obviously, he knows all the places where you’re usually at, so he’s trying hard to “accidentally” bump on you.
He can’t stop looking at you
When he “accidentally” bumps on you, do you have the feeling like he can’t stop staring at you? Whenever you “accidentally” look at him, his eyes are on you.
Trust me, if he wasn’t interested in you, he wouldn’t bother looking at you for a second. So, this is one of the biggest telltale signs he’s totally not over you.
Sigue poniendo excusas para verte
Does he always need your help with something? Does he keep making excuses only to see you? If yes, there you go. He’s making a real effort to be in your vicinity because he obviously still has feelings for you and he secretly hopes that you’re on the same page.
He’s always there to help you
Regardless if it is your chores or a problem regarding your job, he’s always there to help you. He listens to you and focuses on finding a solution for all your problems.
By doing this, he’s investing his time in you and he’s making a real effort para DEMOSTRARTE cuánto le sigues importando.
Se mantiene en contacto con tus amigos y familiares
Uno de los mayores indicios de que tu ex aún siente algo por ti es que siga en contacto con tus familiares, amigos o amigos comunes.
Se mantiene en contacto con ellos porque quiere estar lo más cerca posible de ti. Además, cuando decida reunirse contigo, te serán muy útiles como intermediarios.
He tries to make you jealous and he’s acting jealous himself
¿Intenta desesperadamente ponerte celosa saliendo con otras mujeres, comentando sus fotos y cosas similares? ¿Muestra signos de celos cuando le hablas de tus amigos varones o cuando te ve salir con tus colegas varones?
Of course, you cannot know that he’s acting jealous if you aren’t in contact (or until his friends tell you that). But if you are in contact with him or his friends, and he acts like this, then there’s no need to question his feelings for you.
Te marca borracho
When a man is emotionally unavailable or when he’s pretending to be over you, he might drunk dial you only to admit his feelings.
Given that he doesn’t have the courage to do so in person or when he’s sober, his subconscious mind will force him to drunk dial you. And when he does, prepare to laugh A LOT and also prepare to overthink A LOT.
8 Reasons Why He’s Pretending Not To Like You
Hay muchas razones por las que un chico fingiría que no le gustas, y aquí tienes una lista de las más comunes.
So, in case you’re interested in what is really going on in his head, here are some answers that might help you understand better and deal with the whole situation:
He’s insecure
One of the most common reasons why a guy would pretend that he doesn’t like you is because of his insecurity.
He doesn’t know how to approach you, what to say to you, let alone what to do when he’s with you. He’s afraid that he will mess things up with his words and actions.
His insecurity is forcing him to pretend that he doesn’t have feelings for you, to send you mixed signals, and to keep you wondering about what is really going on in his head.
Los hombres inseguros lo pasan mal expresar sus sentimientos y prefieren fingir toda su vida en lugar de actuar en consecuencia.
Por lo general, sólo necesitan un poco de seguridad por tu parte para sentirse cómodos con esto de que les gustes.
Se siente indigno de estar contigo
And sometimes guys are not insecure, but they don’t feel worthy of being with you. They think that they don’t deserve you because they have a low opinion of themselves – poca confianza en sí mismo.
You are probably the most gorgeous human being on Earth in his eyes and that’s why he feels like he could never be worthy of being with someone like you.
For that reason, it’s easier for him to pretend that he doesn’t even like you than to risk being rejected by you or feeling like he’s not good enough for you.
He’s emotionally unavailable
Perhaps he’s been through a bad breakup recently that scarred him and now he’s become emocionalmente no disponible because he’s, let’s say, protecting his heart.
He’s afraid of getting hurt again and that’s why he acts reserved about you. Truth be told, it’s not easy for a lot of guys to open up emotionally to others.
Hombres emocionalmente no disponibles harán cualquier cosa para ocultar lo que sienten por ti, aunque en sus ojos se note lo mucho que les gustas y lo mucho que disfrutan pasando tiempo contigo.
De nuevo, esto también me pasó a mí.
There was this guy who was cheated on by his ex-girlfriend and we totally clicked. Even though we’d just met, most people thought we were together. Sadly, he refused to show any sign of affection toward me because he was afraid to open himself up and risk getting hurt again.
This is a real pain in the ass and if this is happening to you, you have my condolences. And if you’re wondering what I did regarding all this, I just stopped communicating and hanging out with him.
I gave him some space in the hope that one day he’ll come to his senses and become emotionally available.
Véase también: 5 señales de que no está disponible emocionalmente (no te molestes en salir con él)
He’s a player
If you’ve ever met a player or, God forbid, have been in a relationship with one, then you know that all players have one thing in common – the need to control.
Así que, querida, si tu chico es un jugador he will pretend that he doesn’t like you, and he will pretend that he’s unavailable when you call him just because he wants to establish control and dominance. Pay close attention to such and similar red flags.
He knows that if he pretends that he doesn’t give a damn about you, you will be more interested because it’s in our nature to be drawn to those who ignore us (or pretend to ignore us).
If you think he might be a legit player, my humble relationship advice is to run from him as fast as you can! I always say that it’s better to be single than in a toxic relationship.
He’s immature
En la vida, conocerás a dos tipos de hombres: niños y hombres de verdad. Los chicos son los que siguen siendo inmaduros, los que sencillamente nunca maduran, tengan la edad que tengan.
And sometimes, that boy will decide to pretend he doesn’t like you because he wants to play an immature game out of boredom.
He probably wants to feed his boy-ish ego first and that’s why he’s decided to leave you wondering about how he really feels about you.
Cree que ya tienes a alguien
With the advent of social networks, it’s become really hard to tell for sure who is single or taken.
Some people don’t like exhibiting their status, so the only way to discover whether that person is single or taken is by observing their pictures and other clues that might tell you something about their current amar la vida situación.
Perhaps he saw a picture of you with a good friend of yours and he’s assumed that you have someone already.
Or he’s assumed that for no reason other than because he’s convinced that such a powerful lady couldn’t possibly be single.
And that’s why he’s decided to stay reserved and hide his feelings for you. He’s decided to pretend that he doesn’t like you even though he’s dying to be with you.
He thinks he won’t be able to make you happy
Cuando a un hombre le gustas de verdad, lo único que se le pasa por la cabeza es su determinación de hacerte feliz.
This is the ultimate goal for every guy because if they can make you happy, it means they’re worthy of being with you.
And if he, for some reason, thinks that he won’t be able to make you happy, he might decide to hide his feelings for you and play it safe by not doing anything about it.
There are tons of reasons why a guy would think that, and sometimes they just need more time to sort their life out, or whatever they’re going through at the moment.
In the meantime, he will be scared to fall in love with you and that’s why he’ll pretend that he doesn’t like you.
He’s either shy or the ultimate coward
Sometimes guys pretend they don’t like you just because they don’t have the courage or don’t want to approach you first. They do this because they’re either shy or they simply expect you to make the first move.
If a guy isn’t shy, this is totally unfair and it’s the ultimate act of cowardice.
Significa que prefiere esperar una eternidad a que le digas cómo te sientes, en lugar de hacer algo al respecto por su cuenta. Como siempre, los cobardes ponen excusas, ¡pero los hombres de verdad se esfuerzan!
En lugar de perseguirlo o esperarlo (durante demasiado tiempo) para dar el primer paso, it’s time to go after what makes you feel good and healthy.
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Reflexiones finales
I hope you now understand more clearly the whole philosophy behind all these signs he’s pretending not to like you.
And I hope you’ll stay patient and that you’ll find the courage to give him some space (if needed) in order to realize and admit how much he actually likes you!
To summarize, I’ll finish with this amazing quote:
“It’s hard to pretend you love someone when you don’t, but it’s harder to pretend that you don’t love someone when you really do.” – Desconocido
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