10 veces que te enfadas con tu novio pero no deberías

Las relaciones suelen ser increíbles, pero a veces también pueden ser un auténtico coñazo. Cuando las cosas van bien, te sientes como en las nubes.

Te ríes, bailas, haces tonterías que te hacen reír aún más. Creas tu propio pequeño mundo hecho de amor, diversión y aprecio.

Pero toda relación tiene también sus momentos malos, y eso es completamente normal. Pero lo que de verdad importa es cómo afrontas esos momentos.

¿Te vuelves loco al instante ante cada cosa que no es como te la imaginabas? ¿Tu locura evoca a la bestia que llevas dentro y empiezas a cuestionarte la validez de tu relación?

Bueno, a veces tu locura está totalmente justificada por la gravedad de sus actos. Pero, también hay veces en las que simplemente exageras sin motivo aparente.

To keep this from happening, here are 10 times you get mad at your boyfriend but shouldn’t!

When he wants to have “chill out time”

I understand that you want to visit all the shopping malls, restaurants or have some fun outside, but you need to also understand his need for “tiempo para relajarse”.

A veces tu novio querrá pasar un rato bajo la manta viendo películas o series, y tú te enfadarás porque no quiere salir.

But, just like every human being out there, guys also have the need for some alone time or “chill out time” when they will just vegetate and do nothing in particular.

Y para evitar conflictos innecesarios, puedes organizar una salida con tus amigos o plantearte unirte a él. Al fin y al cabo, puede que lo que tú también necesites sea tiempo de relax.

When you’re hungry

Cuando las mujeres tenemos hambre, no hay nadie en este mundo que pueda salvarnos de nosotras mismas.

And sometimes your boyfriend will tease you or do something a little bit annoying just when you’re hungry, and you are not you (as told by Snickers).

Y te enfadarás al instante y le gritarás sin motivo aparente.

But, to keep this from happening, it is important to understand the cause of your “temporary lunacy” and suppress yourself from doing or saying things that you might regret.

Cuando no se da cuenta de algo

Let’s face it. Guys’ perception of details is really bad to the extent that is literally nonexistent. And we women are pretty much good at it.

Nos fijamos en cada rastro de polvo en nuestros apartamentos, en si nuestro pintalabios es un tono más claro y en cualquier posible cambio que haya por ahí.

Y cuando nuestros novios no se fijan en nuestro nuevo corte de pelo, esmalte de uñas o modelito, nos volvemos locas al instante y les culpamos de no prestarnos atención.

Pero, la verdad es que son literalmente incapaces de darse cuenta de nada de eso porque su percepción de las cosas es completamente diferente a la nuestra.

When he doesn’t want to watch the same TV show as you

You know what they say: De gustibus non est disputandum (“In matters of taste, there can be no dispute.”) Sometimes your boyfriend will want to watch Breaking Bad o Vikingos mientras que usted estará más interesado en ver Juego de Tronos or something else that doesn’t match his preferences.

No matter how hard it is to decide which one you shall watch, you shouldn’t really get mad at him just because he wants to watch something completely different that doesn’t suit you.

Agradece su deseo e intenta llegar a un acuerdo, porque realmente no tiene sentido empeorar las cosas más de lo que están.

Véase también: 4 signos del zodiaco que mejor se comprometen en una relación

When you’re in PMS

Ah, PMS. From my personal experience, I cannot think of any PMS period when I didn’t want to literally kill my boyfriend just for eating my sweets.

When you’re at that time of the month, you cannot think clearly. Your mind becomes totally irrational, and you do things that you would never think of doing were you “normal”.

Así que intenta no enfadarte con tu novio y ten en cuenta que se te pasará.

Cuando actúa como un tío

You’re probably wondering: What does it mean to act like a dude? When a guy acts like a dude, it includes the following things: not washing dishes for 5 days, not cleaning his apartment, not giving a damn about the remains of pizza all over the place and so on.

And when he acts like a dude, there is simply no point in accusing him for it. If you get mad at him for that, he will get mad at you for not understanding his “dude tendency” to live like a pig.

So, there’s nothing really that you can do except for cleaning all of it by yourself and hoping that he will not repeat the same mistake any time soon.

Cuando se olvida de hacer algo

Have you told him to deal with the trash, and he still hasn’t lifted a finger for a few days now? Have you told him to wash the dishes, and he’s simply forgotten it (like every time so far)?

When your boyfriend forgets to do something, trust me, he doesn’t do it on purpose. So, you shouldn’t really get mad at him for that.

Instead of yelling, just give him some more time to organize himself, and I’m sure that everything will be just fine.

When he doesn’t responder inmediatamente a su mensaje

Oh, this one brings memories. I bet there isn’t a single guy on this planet who at some point didn’t respond to a text immediately.

 

When you find yourself waiting for his response, just remind yourself that there’s probably a valid reason behind it. Don’t jump into conclusions just yet or get mad at him because there’s really no point in doing it.

Cuando sale con sus amigos

Being in a relationship doesn’t mean spending all the time with your partner. Your boyfriend, just like you, has needs to socialize with his friends.

So, when he goes out with his friends, don’t freak out immediately.

En lugar de eso, organiza también una salida nocturna con tus amigos. Puesto que es un requisito indispensable para tener una relación sana y feliz, nunca debes ponerlo en duda.

Relájate, diviértete con tus chicas y disfruta de la vida.

When he doesn’t compliment you

We women can be really insecure at times, and therefore, constantly ask our boyfriends for validation. When you wear that special dress and he doesn’t te felicito, please do yourself a favor and don’t get mad at him.

The only reason why he sometimes doesn’t compliment you is because he already thinks that you know you look awesome, and he simply doesn’t see the point in repeating himself. (Yup, that’s exactly what my boyfriend stated recently.)

Así que, si tienes esto en cuenta, seguro que consigues evitar todo ese drama innecesario.