12 mensajes que envía y que revelan su personalidad abusiva
Las relaciones abusivas adoptan diversas formas y, por desgracia, podemos vernos atrapados en una de ellas sin darnos cuenta, antes de que sea demasiado tarde.
Los mensajes que pueden parecer bonitos y cariñosos se vuelven controladores y abusivos.
Su necesidad de saber dónde estás todo el tiempo se convierte en un acoso agresivo.
Hay ciertos signos que revelan su personalidad abusiva antes de que la diversión y los juegos se conviertan en un infierno.
¿Dónde estás y con quién?
His constant need to know where you are and with whom shows that he doesn’t trust you even the slightest bit.
He doesn’t really care about your feelings being hurt here, because he needs to ease whatever is going on in his mind.
It’s one thing to show concern for your partner, but demanding constant intel on their life is just disturbing.
You’re going to be in trouble if you don’t answer me now.
He doesn’t care if you’re busy or unable to get hold of your phone and he doesn’t care if you’re asleep, at a meeting or sick; he’s so sure that you’re doing something you shouldn’t that he needs to hear from you the exact moment he texts you.
What’s with those revealing pictures?
If you post a picture on social media wearing anything other than a onesie that’s also covering your face, he hates it.
No matter what you wear, how much make-up you have on your face, or how dressed up you are, he thinks that you’re just showing off your body to lure other men in.
He believes that you’re doing it sólo para darle celos.
I don’t think you really love me. You never listen to me.
Te dijo específicamente que le llamaras a las 2 de la tarde, te dijo que odia ese vestido, te DIJO que quiere que estés en casa cuando vuelva del trabajo.
It’s your fault that there was a traffic jam, it’s your fault that you love that dress that goes great with your eyes, it’s your fault because you don’t listen to him. It’s like you must not even love him.
You can’t go out without me.
¿Cómo te atreves a pasar un buen rato sin él en un lugar donde hay tantos otros hombres?
¿Cómo te atreves a comportarte como una zorra, cuando él te quiere tanto y te da todo el mundo?
He knows what men truly want and that’s why you can’t go without him.
That’s why he needs to be by your side ALL the time. Because, you know, he just loves you so much.
¿Acaso te importo cuando haces planes sin consultarme?
You made plans with your girls because you haven’t seen each other for ages. And all of a sudden he’s the hurt one, he’s the ignored one.
He wants to go with you, and you’re forced to choose between bringing him with you to ruin everyone’s night or staying at home and ruining only yours.
¿Qué haces con él?
You’re on a break with a colleague from work or having a family reunion with a bunch of cousins (and, of course, some are male) and he freaks out because you’re spending time with someone besides him who has balls.
If he’s constantly asking you questions about your relationships with the most random men in your life, then that’s a clear sign that you’re dealing with an abuser.
I don’t think I’m to blame here.
He snapped only because you didn’t listen to him. He snapped because you left without letting him know where you were going, or you weren’t home when he got there.
No matter how hard you try, he always finds a way to make a fuss about something you did wrong (even if you weren’t aware that you did it) and finds a way to blame it on you.
Even my friends think you’re crazy.
Usually, a text like this is followed by some of his crazy demands, because he’s right and you’re wrong.
And even his friends can see that, so how come you can’t?
Quiere que te cuestiones tu cordura, porque así puede controlarte mucho más fácilmente.
You can’t talk to him; leave if he goes to the party.
Whether it’s a guy from work, your ex or some friend you have known for ages, he’s so jealous of him that he demands that you leave the moment he gets to the party or even to the bar while you’re hanging out there.
Unless he’s there with you, as that way he can establish dominance over him.
Convince me you’re home. Send me a pic.
En el momento en que empiece a exigirte pruebas y fotos, la diversión y los juegos se habrán acabado.
If you haven’t left before this, then it’s time you finally do. No man is worth losing your freedom for.
We’re breaking up if you do this.
He’s practically blackmailing you into staying with him.
¿Vale realmente la pena ese tipo de relación?
