13 pasos para estar guapa e irresistible y derretir su corazón

Te contaré un pequeño secreto.

When guys think of a girl as cute, what they really have on their mind is a girl that’s hot.

But not in that obvious, in-your-face kind of way – rather that coy, innocent type of sexiness.

Eso es lo que realmente quieren los hombres.

La idea de una mujer dura y agresiva que sabe lo buena que está y lo aprovecha cada vez que puede carece de misterio.

Guys would rather have a cute girl by their side, who’s aware of her appearance, yet never really uses it to her advantage and isn’t overly concerned with how she looks.

Cute girls will always have the edge over the “femme fatale,” simply because men want to feel comfortable and relaxed in your presence.

Quieren que tengas los pies en la tierra y seas amable, y por eso siempre se decantan por las mujeres más monas que por las intimidatorias.

Men need to know you’re still human, no matter what you look like, and that is precisely why they always gravitate towards that cute girl next door!

Otro aspecto importante es que bonito se asocia más comúnmente con una relación seria que una aventura.

Cuando los chicos ven a una chica que se ajusta a su idea de chica guapa, es más probable que esperen algo a más largo plazo que una simple aventura.

And when you’re intelligent, smart, assertive, and kind, as well as cute as a button, who can possibly resist that?

Hay mujeres que simplemente nacen con esta cualidad femenina divina, pero también puede aprenderse fácilmente.

Si decides poner en práctica los siguientes pequeños (pero notables) cambios, ¡seguro que notas el efecto seductor que tiene en los hombres!

¿Cómo ser guapo? 13 maneras de ser irresistible y derretir su corazón!

Deja de intentar conscientemente parecer sexy

Si quieres estar mona, abandona la idea de que tienes que estar sexy todo el tiempo. Sexy emite unas vibraciones totalmente diferentes que bonito.

When you’re cute, it’s an effortless type of beauty.

You’re carefree, probably with a genuine smile on your face and talking about something you’re passionate about.

No te preocupa tu aspecto, si tu pelo está exactamente igual que cuando saliste de casa o si hay que retocar el pintalabios.

Cute is coy, playful, and unbothered. Fragile, unassuming, and open-minded. Don’t overthink it, just be yourself and keep positive.

Chances are, you’re way cuter when you’re not thinking about it at all.

Viste colores pastel para variar

When you’re wearing bold colors all the time, it can look a little intimidating and out there.

I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, but if you want to be cute, perhaps it’s a good idea to try out something new and see how it feels.

Wear pastel shades that are more pleasing to the eye and that don’t stand out in the crowd that much.

Combinan mucho mejor que los colores fuertes y atrevidos, y te dan un aspecto más mono y cómodo.

Quieres ser accesible, y eso es exactamente lo que conseguirás con este sencillo truco de vestuario.

When you’re talking to a guy, play with a strand of your hair

Nonchalantly play with your hair while you’re in the middle of a conversation with him.

Especially while you’re thinking hard about something or trying to make a decision.

Parece adorablemente lindo, but it’s so unassuming that he’ll be none the wiser.

Y si te sientes un poco incómoda, ponte un mechón de pelo detrás de la oreja con una sonrisa tímida.

Don’t wear makeup that’s too heavy

Si quieres conseguir ese look bonito y desenfadado, confía menos en el maquillaje cargado y más en esos tonos sutiles y suaves que sólo están ahí para acentuar tus rasgos naturalmente bellos.

When your makeup is too strong, it looks glamorous and too sexy, and that is exactly what we’re trying to avoid here.

You’re going for that innocent, yet inviting look that gives out just the right dose of hot.

One that’s not too obvious, yet totally noticeable and one that will get you on his radar.

Don’t be too loud

Si quieres ser mono, intenta bajar un poco la voz.

If you’re a naturally loud and talkative girl, that’s still okay.

Lo único que tienes que hacer es ser consciente de que a veces, sin querer, puedes hablar demasiado alto y tenerlo en cuenta.

Try to sound softer when you’re speaking to him and put on a smile every time you look at him.

Don’t let your voice overpower his and just keep your tone a little lower than usual.

Sé optimista y positivo siempre que puedas

Nobody likes a Debbie Downer. It’s not always going to be sunshine and rainbows, but try to look at things from a positive perspective as much as you can.

Eso atraerá energía positiva a tu alrededor y él se sorprenderá gratamente de tu capacidad para mantenerte alegre y relajada en todo momento.

La alegría y el positivismo son cualidades muy atractivas que te granjearán muchos comentarios positivos. Bonito, ¿verdad?

Mantén la sonrisa

Las chicas que sonríen son cien por cien más accesibles que cualquier otra tipo de chica!

Don’t act like you’re above anyone and never let yourself think you’re better than someone else.

Stay in your lane, be kind, smile at people, and treat everyone the way you’d like to be treated.

Take everything life throws at you with a smile on your face, knowing that you’ve got this.

Don’t let irrelevant things and dumb people get you down and erase that cute smile from your face.

Lo que das siempre vuelve, así que sé positivo, sé amable y cree que la amabilidad supera cualquier otra cualidad de una persona.

Deja que el chico tome la iniciativa a veces

Try not to be to controlling when talking to him. Cute girls are a little shy and nervous, and they’ll let the guy lead the conversation every now and then, and let him ask them questions.

It’s even easier for you that way. He’ll feel good about himself, and you don’t have to think about what to say all the time.

Déjelo en sus manos y responda a sus preguntas, tal vez con algunas propias.

Just be a little mysterious and flirty, but never give him the idea that you’re doing all of this intentionally. Therein lies your power.

Don’t be afraid of being a little mischievous

Just because you’re trying to be cute, doesn’t mean you can’t be a tad flirty at the same time.

La próxima vez que diga algo gracioso, tómale el pelo y sonríe de forma divertida.

Let him know you’re into whatever it is that he’s saying and you think he’s really witty.

He’ll be flattered and you’ll still remain that cute, natural girl that doesn’t like to be too obvious, yet is clear about what she wants.

Le intrigará tu misterioso comportamiento y seguro que querrá volver a verte.

Ten cuidado con lo que te pones

Con esto no quiero decir lo que debes o no debes llevar. Es totalmente tu elección, y poder para ti.

But, if you want to be cute and appealing, perhaps it’s a good idea to wear light, flowy material that will gently fall on your legs and twirl a bit every time there’s a breeze.

You don’t have to wear a dress necessarily, just something that will look cute and girly, and isn’t too strict and sharp.

Automáticamente estarás más guapo.

Mírale directamente a los ojos

De vez en cuando, capta su mirada y míralo profundamente durante unos segundos.

Don’t make it weird or anything, just a coy, little look that is supposed to make him feel realmente visto.

Sometimes, when you catch him looking at you, modestly look away as if you haven’t noticed, and then if he’s still looking, give him a little smile and leave his imagination to soar.

When he’s talking, give him cute reactions

If he is complimenting you, learn to blush and be shy about it, but don’t negate what he said.

If he’s talking about something he’s really passionate about, be in awe and admire his ambition and vigor, while smiling and encouraging him to keep talking.

Sea consciente de su lenguaje corporal en todo momento.

Inclínate hacia él, asiente con la cabeza y mantén las manos delante del torso, sin agitarlas demasiado.

Give him a seductive look, but immediately look down at your feet if he notices. It’s those little things that make you look irresistibly cute!

Nunca te hagas el tonto

Don’t believe when people say that the dumber you are, the more chances you have at finding a guy.

Guys don’t like girls who play stupid. That’s just ridiculous!

Be smart, let your opinion be heard, and don’t act like you’re less than you are to stroke his ego!

Si tienes que hacerte la tonta para impresionarle, ¿hasta qué punto es un buen partido?

Hombres de verdad are attracted to girls who aren’t afraid to let their voices be heard.

You’re much cuter when you’re vocal about things that matter to you, than when you keep quiet and agree with things just for the sake of keeping him pleased.

Remember that as much as you want to be cute, it’s never worth it if you have to pretend that you’re someone you’re not, and a real man will always appreciate a girl who’s true to herself.