15 señales innegables de que por fin has conocido a un buen chico
Nice men are like comfortable heels—almost impossible to find. They are all sweet and good at the beginning, but after some time, we are waiting para que un hombre muestre su verdadero rostro.
Estamos esperando a que dejen de actuar y nos muestren de qué están hechos realmente.
Puedes fingir, pero eso tiene fecha de caducidad. Nadie puede fingir bondad durante tanto tiempo.
Las mujeres con experiencia en el mundo de las citas han aprendido a reconocer todas las señales que están gritando que es un d-bag o un playboy. Sabemos exactamente, por su forma de comportarse y de hablar, si merece nuestro tiempo. Lo sabemos porque ya hemos pasado por eso y no vamos a volver a caer en esa trampa.
Now, this is kind of a double-edged sword situation. Since a lot of us have been bullied with fuckboy behavior and been emotionally abused, we have a hard time trusting people. And that’s why even when someone nice comes along, we may miss him and lose him.
Nuestro comportamiento precavido obstaculiza nuestra felicidad.
We are so afraid we’re going to make another mistake and we keep ourselves away from those kinds of guys, that we might accidentally and out of precaution lose the good ones.
We have a hard time recognizing the good guys because we are stuck looking for the bad things. We are so quick to classify men and put them all in one basket. That’s the biggest mistake we make, but we do it because we’ve been burnt once… but never again.
But, when we run into a good man, it’s like getting those heels that you can dance all night in and it will feel like dancing on the clouds.
So, ladies, check out some of the signs you’ve finally met a good man and not another asshole. Hang on to him because you might not get a second chance.
You’re guarded and he is patient
He knows you can’t let go right away. He knows you’ve been through a lot and he is there for you to show you support and understanding.
He won’t be going anywhere, he has all the time in the world and he is giving it to you.
He assures you your past won’t repeat itself
Te recuerda tu jodido pasado sólo para hacerte creer que nunca te hará algo así. He won’t allow anyone to hurt you because he knows you’ve had your fair share of pain and it’s already enough.
Nunca envía señales contradictorias
Nunca se hará el difícil. Esos juegos infantiles están fuera de su alcance. Es un hombre de verdad, lo bastante maduro para actuar así y para considerarte una mujer adulta y completa.
He will answer your every text and he will return your every missed call. He knows this isn’t high school anymore.
Cuando hace una promesa, la cumple
Empty words and promises don’t exist in his world. If he can’t keep a promise, he won’t promise you anything in the first place.
He always keeps his word and even if that doesn’t agree with his point of view, if he says it, he will keep it. You will never be disappointed.
Te sorprende cuando más dudas de él
You’ve got used to doubting men and expecting the worst from them because those were your experiences until now.
Él, en cambio, te demostrará que te equivocas cada vez que dudes de él y no a propósito para demostrarte algo, sino porque es así: perfecto para ti.
He isn’t jealous
He doesn’t mind sharing you with your friends. He is well aware of the fact that your life didn’t start the moment you met him and he respects that.
Te anima a salir con tus amigos y también muestra interés por conocerlos. Todo y todos los que te importan también son valiosos para él.
Te ayuda con cosas triviales
He will do the dishes or clean up any mess because he knows that even though it’s not a big deal, it will mean the world to you.
Nunca deja de intentarlo
You know that some men stop making you feel special after some time because they are sure you’re going to stay. Well, he never stops trying.
Te compra regalos y flores porque quiere hacerte feliz. Quiere asegurarse de que sabes lo mucho que significas para él.
Le pillas mirando fijamente
Even after all the time you’ve been together, you catch him staring at you like when he saw you for the first time in his life.
He tells you you’re beautiful
Te hace consciente de que eres la persona más bella de la habitación para élsiempre. Él te dirá que eres hermosa de la nada porque realmente piensa y siente de esa manera.
Nunca se da por vencido
He always fights for you. Even when the two of you fight and you are both angry, he will cool down and reach out to you to smooth things out because he won’t let you go that easily.
Significas demasiado para él como para irte sin más.
Te trata bien
Siempre es amable contigo, lo cual es un poco raro porque no estás acostumbrada. Nunca has entendido que las relaciones funcionan así y no como las vivías antes.
This is hard for you to accept because you’re always looking for a hidden motive. Well, there isn’t one.
Te respeta
He will never disrespect the things you love. Even if he doesn’t like your hobbies or the kind of music you play, he will make an effort to like it.
If that fails, he will be supportive of you even when something isn’t his cup of tea. But, it’s yours and he respects that.
Te das cuenta de que cambió tu vida
Cambió tu forma de ver a la gente. Te dio la esperanza de que todavía hay gente buena y tuviste la suerte de poner tus manos sobre una.
Te demostró que no todo el mundo te hará daño. Ya ves, pensabas que era igual que los demás, pero no lo es.
Te ve en lo más bajo y aún así te ama
He sees your vulnerable side, he sees you at your worst and he still stays. He sees your pain and your suffering and he doesn’t chicken out, he stays and gives you a shoulder to cry on.
A él también le duele. Le duele verte triste y rota. A él le pasa lo mismo. Pero se recompone y te saca adelante. Eso es lo que hace. Así es como te quiere.
