Deja de tener problemas sentimentales con alguien con quien no tienes pareja

Tener una relación problemática es horrible.

Being with someone who hurts you every day and not getting along with your partner are two of the things which can stress you out to the point where you simply don’t know where you’re headed with your life anymore.

Además, te hace sentir miserable y no ves salida a esta situación.

But let’s face it—no relationship is perfect and we have all had problems with our romantic partner at some point in our life.

Although these problems shouldn’t become standard, the fact is that they are a part of life, even though they don’t make you feel the best.

But you know what shouldn’t be natural and normal? You know what is way worse than having relationship problems with your partner?

It’s having relationship problems with someone you’re not in a relationship with.

Cuando te encuentras en este tipo de situación, probablemente estás recibiendo todos los lados negativos de una relación.

You feel like you are taken, like you can’t ligar with other men and like you can’t meet anyone new. You get the part where the guy you are seeing is jealous.

Tienes las peleas, las discusiones y los regaños. Tienes los lloros y las partes molestas.

Te toca la parte en la que te comparas con todas las demás chicas cercanas a este hombre con el que estás liada.

Te toca la parte en la que se espera de ti que estés a su lado siempre que necesite tu presencia.

You get the part where you know you love this guy, even though he obviously doesn’t love you back because he refuses to label things and because he refuses to commit to you.

Y la mayor parte del tiempo, realmente sientes que es tu novio.

Al fin y al cabo, cuando están juntos, la two de ti actuar como una pareja de verdad y tienes todos los problemas de una relación.

But the difference between this type of a relationship and a real romantic relationship is that you don’t have the good parts.

You don’t have someone to be your partner in any sense of that word. You don’t have someone whose hand you can proudly hold in front of everyone.

You don’t have someone to abrazarte hasta que te duermas. Alguien que te dé un beso de buenos días o te envíe un mensaje de buenas noches.

You don’t have someone to go with you to weddings and other important occasions.

You don’t have someone to surprise you on your birthday at midnight. You don’t have someone to celebrate New Year or Valentine’s Day with.

You don’t have someone to wait for you on your doorstep when you get home from work exhausted and tired.

You don’t have someone to take care of when you are sick or just to be there for you when you need someone to talk to.

You don’t have someone who is only yours. You don’t have the faithful and loyal man you need.

You don’t have someone you can introduce to your friends and family. You can’t say that you are in a relationship.

You don’t have your other half or your plus one. No, you don’t have either of these things when you are single either.

But when this is the case, you know that you are on your own in a romantic sense and you don’t have the stress which this almost relationship brings with it.

También sabes que estás disponible para otros hombres y que puedes ponerte en el mercado de las citas cuando te apetezca.

Así que si cree que su casi relación es digno de todos los males que estás pasando, lee todo esto y piensa en todo lo negativo que te está aportando y piensa en todo lo positivo de lo que te estás privando.

And I’m sure you’ll change your mind.

I’m sure you’ll see that you are wasting your time on someone who doesn’t want to commit to you and that he’ll probably never change his views.

You’ll see that you are actually trapped in a relationship without labels, when that is the last thing you want.

You’ll see that you deserve someone who will proudly call you his girlfriend. That you deserve someone who will be yours and who will love you for real.