5 señales de que es un niño de mamá emocionalmente inmaduro

La confianza y el respeto mutuos son esenciales para que toda relación tenga éxito. Si no tienes las bases para ello, considera que tu relación está condenada al fracaso.

Lo que oigo cada vez más de mujeres jóvenes de todas partes es que tropiezan con inmaduros, mama’s boys.

At first, these men are so fun to be around. They are very relaxed, nice, easy going, lovable…everything. But they lack one important thing—maturity.

If you want a serious relationship you don’t need a boy by your side. You need a man.

You need someone to communicate your problems to and not someone who will sweep them under the rug. Usually, they all swear and pretend they are like that, but later they live up to their ‘mama’s boy’ name.

Emotionally immature men affect the health of your relationship. They are like a weed in the rosebush—it needs to be plucked out.

Si estás harto de hacerlo todo tú solo, entonces estás mejor solo que en una relación en la que tienes que hacer de niñera de alguien.

He doesn’t know how to behave

In some situations, he acts inappropriately. He may even embarrass you. He doesn’t get that certain behavior is not appropriate. He actually acts like a kid.

It’s the same when you have to keep reminding your child what’s wrong and what’s right. It’s the same with hombres emocionalmente inmaduros.

He’s selfish

He always puts his needs first. It’s ok to love and respect yourself, as long as that doesn’t become narcissism. He is a bit more on the narcissistic side than on the self-caring side.

You really can’t count on him to help you, even if his ass is at stake, too.

He can’t commit

He’s still at the party stage and he will always be. He cannot settle down or commit to anybody because he’s emotionally unavailable.

Nunca hará un trato 100% con nadie, ni siquiera contigo porque sabe que puede surgir algo más divertido e interesante.

He doesn’t talk about his feelings

He’s always cracking jokes and he can never talk about anything serious.

Even if you tell him to stop, that it’s not the time for joking, he will make fun of the whole situation somehow, just to avoid getting into a deep serious conversation. It’s very immature of him to ignore your feelings or even his own.

Cuando se pone difícil, se aleja

En situaciones de estrés, te dará la espalda. Debido a su inmadurez, no es un compañero igual a ti.

He doesn’t take things seriously, or he pretends just not to care. Maybe it’s his way of dealing with difficulties—but it’s a wrong way.

No se supone que seas tú quien tiene todo bajo su control. Ese tipo de relaciones te agotarán.

Relationships are supposed to be about partnership and about making each other into the better versions of yourselves—not about picking up the crumbs of what is supposed to be the real deal behind someone.