5 señales de que sus celos no son sanos
Todos somos posesivos de vez en cuando cuando se trata de personas a las que queremos. Y no importa lo que te digan, celos forma parte de toda relación.
Pero hay una gran diferencia entre los celos sanos y los malsanos. Un poco de celos nunca hace daño a nadie. De hecho, suelen ser halagadores para la otra persona y pueden animar las cosas.
Pero hay una delgada línea que separa los celos sanos de los posesivos, y puede cruzarse fácilmente.
A veces, piensas que tienes un novio perfecto que está locamente enamorado de ti y que teme perderte.
You feel special because he acts like he can’t live without you and you find it cute. You know you are the centre of this guy’s world and you kind of enjoy it.
Pero, con el tiempo, empiezas a preguntarte si este hombre en realidad está exagerando. ¿Es posible que su Sr. Perfecto sea en realidad un hombre inseguro? ¿Sus celos son enfermizos? Aquí tienes 5 señales de alarma a las que deberías prestar atención.
Tiene que saber cada movimiento que haces
Una de las señales de que tu pareja es enfermizamente celosa es el hecho de que quiera saber dónde estás y con quién en cada momento.
This guy gets mad if you don’t text him the second you wake up and he expects you to keep him updated about every single move you make during the day.
It is great if a guy you are seeing is interested in how your day has been, but it is something else if you can’t take a proper breath without him having to know about it.
Te está acosando
Últimamente, tu novio aparece siempre que vas y afirma que es una coincidencia.
But, this guy knows your habits, knows where he can find you and it is probable that he’s been stalking you. He doesn’t believe you and wants to make sure you are not doing anything he doesn’t want you to do.
Cada vez que sales sin él, aparece de la nada, diciéndote que sólo quería darte una sorpresa o que te está controlando.
Pero la realidad es otra. Este hombre es obviamente celoso y peligrosamente posesivo y tiene serios problemas de confianza.
He doesn’t allow you to have secrets
Even when you are in a relationship with someone, that doesn’t mean that you’ve ceased to exist as a person. You are still an individual, with and without him in your life.
But, it seems that your boyfriend doesn’t understand this and that he doesn’t want to accept it. It is normal for you to share your thoughts with him, but it is also normal if you want to keep some things for yourself.
Pero este tipo quiere saber hasta el último detalle de tu vida y es extremadamente inquisitivo.
He wants you to talk to him about all the trivialities that happened to you or someone you both know. It’s like he wants to get inside your mind. If he doesn’t have access to every detail regarding you, he gets frustrated and makes a big deal out of it.
Intenta controlar todos tus movimientos
If your boyfriend’s jealousy is unhealthy, he will try to interfere in every single aspect of your life.
At first, you’ll think he is just being helpful and that it is great you have such a supportive boyfriend you can always count on.
But, with time, you’ll realize that he is only doing this so he can have an insight into everything that is going on regarding you.
This man is obviously ready to go an extra mile just so he could control every move you make. He wants to be a part of every decision you take and he can’t accept if the two of you disagree.
Todo en tu vida tiene que ser a su manera y si no lo es, lo convierte en una gran pelea.
Te quiere toda para él
This guy doesn’t have any respect for your límites personales en las relacionesp o espacio personal.
If it was up to him, the two of you would spend every minute of every day together. He doesn’t think you should have friends or that you should hang out with your co-workers.
Incluso si piensas en ir a algún sitio sin él, te acompaña sin ni siquiera ser invitado.
Cuando le dices que su comportamiento te incomoda, inmediatamente te acusa de sentir que sólo es una carga para ti y hace como si obviamente estuvieras ocultando algo.
