5 señales reveladoras de que su pareja podría estar interesada en otra persona

¿Has empezado de repente a ver ciertas cositas que hace tu novio que te hacen sentir insegura de él? ¿Se ha vuelto de repente un poco distante y malhumorado?

Es posible que hayas malinterpretado las sutiles señales que él emitía cuando vuestra relación empezó a desvanecerse.

It sucks to be played for a fool but instead of wondering if there’s otra persona en su mente, intente rebobinar hasta el momento en que empezó a sospechar y vea si se le ha pasado algo por alto.

Don’t let him relish in the fact that he has someone else waiting for him when he leaves your house. Make sure you’re secure in your relationship even if it means breaking up with him.  Don’t let him string you along— you’ve got better things to do.

So, before it’s too late, if your guy does any of these things, it might be time to confront him and under no circumstances should you take it easy on him.

Casi nunca llama o envía mensajes de texto primero

When a guy is REALLY into you, he won’t mind being the one to initiate contact; after all, he doesn’t want to lose you.

Así que si deja de enviarte mensajes y de llamarte, o si es muy raro que su nombre aparezca en tu pantalla, puede ser una señal de alarma.

It’s one thing to be busy at work and getting back to you when he finds time but it’s a completely different thing when you can’t even remember the last time he called you first. Esto podría ser una señal de que se está distanciando emocionalmente de la relación. Así que, ten cuidado.

He can’t look you in the eyes anymore

Inconscientemente, puede que se sienta culpable así que... evita el contacto visual as much as possible. He can’t bear looking you in the eyes because he feels you might figure him out.

He doesn’t want to give himself away so his head is tilted down around you the majority of the time.

Una vez que esto empieza a suceder, puede significar que su atención está en otra persona . Llámale la atención si crees que es así y pónselo lo más difícil posible. Se merece sentirse como el gilipollas que es (si tus predicciones son correctas).

Se ha vuelto poco fiable y te abandona a menudo.

Existe la posibilidad de que realmente esté atascado en el trabajo, pero si sigue ocurriendo cada vez que hacéis planes y acabas plantada la mayoría de las veces, puede que esté demasiado ocupado haciendo planes con otra persona.

Un chico que realmente quiere verte encontrará la manera de verte. La gente tiende a dedicar tiempo a las cosas y a las personas que quiereindependientemente de su apretada agenda laboral.

Seguro que puede dedicarte una o dos horas al día. Pero si incluso eso se ha convertido en algo raro, puede que haya llegado el momento de enfrentarse a la música.

He never tells you where he is or what he’s up to anymore

You feel like you have to beg him for any information on his whereabouts these days. Even then, he’s vague and uninterested.

This is typical for a guy who has someone on the side but has to keep it a secret, so he genuinely doesn’t tell you anything anymore, as every little lie might help expose his big secret. He prefers to keep to himself and ignore you most of the time.

Do yourself a favor and run from him. Save yourself from the embarrassment and leave his cheating ass as it can’t be any clearer he’s keeping someone on the side. Leave him and never look back.

Su estado de ánimo fluctúa constantemente

It’s totally normal to have ‘off’ days and not really feel in the mood for much. We all go through that, it’s just a part of life.

Pero si desde hace un tiempo parece malhumorado y nervioso sin motivo aparente, y durante gran parte del día, puede deberse a que no es aquí donde quiere estar.

He has someone else on his mind and that’s where he is in his head, which is making him crazy moody and rude toward you.

This is a clear sign that something is so obviously going on and you need to react. Don’t let this go on any further, the signs are all there.

It sucks, I know but you need to put yourself first in this situation and call him out. It is obvious that he doesn’t want to be there anymore, so don’t keep holding onto something that is no longer there.

Leave and slam the door in his face. You’re nobody’s fool and you’re not going to let him play you any longer.

Take control of the situation and be the one who leaves first. Let him be where he wants to be, you’ve got better things to do, anyway.