6 señales de que él es sólo una solución temporal, pero no la cura para su quebrantamiento

Para algunas personas, iniciar una nueva relación después de haber sufrido un desamor devastador es lo que hay que hacer. Y tú eres una de ellas.

Ever since you’ve met this new guy you’re currently dating, it seems that you’ve forgotten all about your ex. Now, he is nothing more than a distant memory and you feel more alive than ever.

Odio ser el que rompa tu burbuja pero ¿te has preguntado alguna vez si este hombre es realmente lo que necesitas para sanar correctamente? ¿Se trata de un relación de rebote que te hace sentir bien en este momento o un hombre que necesitas para borrar tus cicatrices?

¿Es una solución temporal o una cura permanente para su ¿Ruptura emocional?

Well, we’re here to help you and to answer all of your questions. Here are 6 signs that your current boyfriend is not your healer, even though you’re enjoying being with him now.

1. Te da mariposas

There is no doubt about one thing—you’re head over heels for this guy. He gives you that butterfly feeling in your stomach every time he kisses you and you’re excited when you’re about to see him.

You can’t help yourself but constantly think about this man. You miss him when he’s not around and you have trouble sleeping, eating and daydreaming about him.

With him, you feel like you’re on top of the world and you have trouble breathing properly.

2. But he doesn’t make you calm

Por otro lado, no es el tipo de hombre que trae paz a tu vida. No es alguien a quien puedas coger de la mano, sin decir una palabra en toda la noche y sintiéndote perfectamente bien.

No es el tipo que cura tus locuras y dramas, ni el hombre que puede calmarte. Por el contrario, todo con él es una montaña rusa de emociones.

3. El sexo es genial

Cuando se trata de sexo, todo supera tus sueños más salvajes. La atracción física entre vosotros es increíble y congeniáis desde el primer momento.

He is everything you’ve been looking for in a sexual partner and it seems that the two of you are perfectly compatible in the bedroom. The sex is never boring and you’re always experimenting with new things.

The best part is that he isn’t selfish when it comes to your pleasure. This man is ready to make all of your fantasies come true and never gives up until both of you are fully pleased.

4. Pero la comunicación es pésima

However, you can’t say that the communication outside the bedroom is on the same level as well. On the contrary, when you think about it honestly, there is really nothing you can talk to this guy about.

It’s not that he refuses to listen to you or that he has poor habilidades comunicativas – it’s just that you have little common ground. Or maybe you don’t feel comfortable opening up to him and exposing your vulnerabilities in front of him?

Por supuesto, habláis de cosas cotidianas. Hay alguna charla trivial, pero rara vez habláis de las cosas realmente profundas que os preocupan.

You rarely talk to him about your broken parts, as if you’re afraid that he won’t cherish them enough. Or maybe you assume he wouldn’t understand you.

5. Disfrutas del presente

Nevertheless, this doesn’t mean you’re ever bored next to this man. On the contrary, every minute you spend by his side is interesting and exciting.

When you’re together, you don’t think about the past or the future. You enjoy the present moment to the fullest.

6. But you don’t plan a future with him

Even though living like this sounds tempting, it’s time to ask yourself why you keep running from the idea of having a future next to this man. If you are honest enough, you’ll see that you can’t picture yourself growing old with him.

You can’t imagine the two of you when these initial butterflies fly away and when you get stuck in the rut of everyday life. If this is the case, one thing is clear—you’re in love but you don’t love él.