7 frases de mierda que usan los infieles para salirse con la suya
Aclaremos una cosa: el engaño no puede justificarse, sean cuales sean las circunstancias.
Es uno de los mayores pecados en una relación amorosa y el que ha engañado probablemente volverá a hacerlo. Ya conoces el dicho: “Once a cheater, always a cheater!”
Well, it’s true in most cases and if you forgive the cheater his little fun time with another woman, he won’t respect you anymore. He will think that you forgave him something quite big and he will think that you will do it again.
Y debo admitir que algunos infieles tienen historias realmente buenas que contar a sus parejas. Las hay tontas, pero también buenas, y algunas mujeres se las creen.
Aquí está la lista de las líneas de engaño más comunes que los infieles utilizan para hacer que te quedes.
1. I didn’t want to hurt you
Seriously? You went to bed with another woman, undressed her and fucked her and now you tell me that you didn’t want to hurt me?
The problem is that all cheaters will cheat because they want to. No man would cheat on his partner if he didn’t want to do that. Nobody can make you do things that you don’t want.
So, when a cheater tells you something like this, just know that this is his way of trying to get away with it. He is not sorry about cheating on you but the truth is that he doesn’t want to lose you.
Espero de verdad que le digas lo idiota que es por engañarte y que sabía que te haría daño si hacía algo así. Aunque te entren ganas de llorar y todo tu mundo se venga abajo, conserva tu dignidad y déjale con orgullo.
2. Fue culpa suya
Sí, lo más fácil es culpar a la otra parte. Fuiste tan torpe que chocaste con ella y, sin saberlo, te metiste en sus bragas.
This is just a pathetic excuse to justify his behavior and to make you stay, so I just hope that you won’t believe him. Cheaters will always try to make someone else guilty for what they did.
Si yo fuera tú, nunca perdonar a un hombre like this because he definitely knew what he was doing and he didn’t even think of you.
In fact, he was looking at her and he didn’t see you.
A man like this doesn’t deserve to be with a woman like you because you have so much to offer and he obviously doesn’t respect that.
3. Podemos tener una relación abierta
Esto es algo que un infiel dirá cuando sienta que no hay vuelta atrás.
He feels that he is trapped in a corner that he can’t escape from and he is using all kinds of weapons to make you believe him.
He might say that he was flirting with someone but that he didn’t go any further than that.
¡Mentira!
Una patética mentira que sólo utiliza para que te quedes y le des otra oportunidad.
Please bear in mind that even if he was just flirting with someone, this is also a sign that he wasn’t thinking of you or how his behavior would affect you. And that is not el hombre que te mereces.
So, leave him while you can but don’t forget to tell him that one day he will be sorry for doing all those nasty things to you.
4. Es como tú. Te gustaría que
Sí, lo mejor sería que desarrollaras una amistad con la mujer con la que te engañó tu pareja.
Es un tonto si piensa que te dolerá menos si dice que la persona con la que te engañó es una buena persona. Es sólo una forma de justificar su comportamiento e intentar salir impune de su error.
If he was so stupid to cheat on you, be smart enough to let him go. A man like that doesn’t respect you and he will never give you the love you deserve. Or anything else besides tears.
5. Me decepcionó su comportamiento
Esta es la mayor mentira de todas. Un infiel realmente te culpará por engañarte.
He will tell you that you were neglecting him and that he didn’t get the love he craved so much. And just because of that, he cheated on you to be happy for a short time.
He will even tell you that he wanted to belong to someone because you don’t make him your priority and that his fragile heart couldn’t stand to be broken all the time.
Listen to me, if you still care about yourself and if you want a good life, leave him as fast as you can. He doesn’t deserve your pure love and everything he says is just an attempt to make you forgive him.
6. I don’t know what happened for me to do that
Al decir esto está admitiendo que no era más que un animal que se dejó llevar por sus instintos al fracaso.
He didn’t even try to fight against what he felt in that moment but he just went with the flow, only thinking about the enjoyment that one-night stand would give him.
He didn’t think about you or about your relación. ¿Y sabes por qué?
Because he didn’t think that you were important to him until he cheated on you and realized what he had done. Now he is just trying to justify his actions and to do anything that will make you stay.
Please don’t take him back because if he cheated on you once, he will do it again. You deserve so much more than his half-assed love.
7. Estaba borracho
No importa si estabas borracho o no, sabes lo que sientes.
Cuando engañas, lo haces porque quieres. No porque otra mujer sea más guapa o porque haya química. Estás 100% seguro de que quieres hacerlo y lo harás de una forma u otra.
So stories about too much alcohol in the blood are quite silly. There are men who were drunker than he was but they didn’t do anything bad because they knew who was waiting for them at home. It is all about setting your priorities—you love or you don’t. It’s as simple as that.
Así, si un tramposo tries to make you believe him with a story like this, don’t forgive him and leave him because he doesn’t respect you.
What is the point of living with someone who can’t even resist the slightest temptation? If he is not all yours, you really don’t need him.
In the end, I just hope that you won’t be needing these lines because your man will never cheat on you.
But if he does, you should know that it wasn’t your fault. It is all about him. He is just stupid enough to cheat on a high-value woman like you and a man like that doesn’t deserve a second chance.
Si fue tan estúpido como para engañarte, ¡sé lo suficientemente inteligente como para dejarlo ir!
