7 frases de treta que os traidores usam para se safarem
Vamos esclarecer uma coisa: a trapaça não pode ser justificada, sejam quais forem as circunstâncias.
É um dos maiores pecados numa relação amorosa e a pessoa que traiu provavelmente voltará a trair. Conhece o ditado: “Once a cheater, always a cheater!”
Well, it’s true in most cases and if you forgive the cheater his little fun time with another woman, he won’t respect you anymore. He will think that you forgave him something quite big and he will think that you will do it again.
E tenho de admitir que alguns batoteiros têm histórias muito boas para contar às suas parceiras. Há histórias parvas, mas há boas histórias e algumas mulheres acreditam mesmo nelas.
Aqui está a lista das frases de traição mais comuns que os traidores utilizam para o fazer ficar.
1. I didn’t want to hurt you
Seriously? You went to bed with another woman, undressed her and fucked her and now you tell me that you didn’t want to hurt me?
The problem is that all cheaters will cheat because they want to. No man would cheat on his partner if he didn’t want to do that. Nobody can make you do things that you don’t want.
So, when a cheater tells you something like this, just know that this is his way of trying to get away with it. He is not sorry about cheating on you but the truth is that he doesn’t want to lose you.
Espero sinceramente que lhe diga que é um idiota por a ter traído e que ele sabia que a magoaria se fizesse uma coisa dessas. Mesmo que queira chorar e que o seu mundo esteja a desmoronar-se, mantenha a sua dignidade e deixe-o orgulhosamente.
2. A culpa foi dela
Sim, a coisa mais fácil a fazer é culpar o outro lado. Foste tão desastrado que esbarraste nela e, sem saberes, entraste-lhe nas cuecas.
This is just a pathetic excuse to justify his behavior and to make you stay, so I just hope that you won’t believe him. Cheaters will always try to make someone else guilty for what they did.
Se eu fosse a ti, nunca perdoar um homem like this because he definitely knew what he was doing and he didn’t even think of you.
In fact, he was looking at her and he didn’t see you.
A man like this doesn’t deserve to be with a woman like you because you have so much to offer and he obviously doesn’t respect that.
3. Podemos ter uma relação aberta
Isto é algo que um traidor dirá quando sentir que não há forma de voltar atrás.
He feels that he is trapped in a corner that he can’t escape from and he is using all kinds of weapons to make you believe him.
He might say that he was flirting with someone but that he didn’t go any further than that.
Mentira!
Uma mentira patética que ele só usa para fazer com que fiques e lhe dês outra oportunidade.
Please bear in mind that even if he was just flirting with someone, this is also a sign that he wasn’t thinking of you or how his behavior would affect you. And that is not o homem que mereces.
So, leave him while you can but don’t forget to tell him that one day he will be sorry for doing all those nasty things to you.
4. Ela é como tu. Tu gostarias dela
Sim, o melhor seria desenvolver uma amizade com a mulher com quem o seu parceiro o traiu.
Ele é um tolo se pensa que a vai magoar menos se disser que a pessoa com quem a traiu é uma boa pessoa. Esta é apenas uma forma de justificar o seu comportamento e de tentar safar-se do seu erro.
If he was so stupid to cheat on you, be smart enough to let him go. A man like that doesn’t respect you and he will never give you the love you deserve. Or anything else besides tears.
5. Fiquei desiludido com o seu comportamento
Esta é a maior mentira de todas. Um traidor vai mesmo culpá-lo por o ter traído.
He will tell you that you were neglecting him and that he didn’t get the love he craved so much. And just because of that, he cheated on you to be happy for a short time.
He will even tell you that he wanted to belong to someone because you don’t make him your priority and that his fragile heart couldn’t stand to be broken all the time.
Listen to me, if you still care about yourself and if you want a good life, leave him as fast as you can. He doesn’t deserve your pure love and everything he says is just an attempt to make you forgive him.
6. I don’t know what happened for me to do that
Ao dizer isto, está a admitir que era apenas um animal que se deixou levar pelos seus instintos para o fracasso.
He didn’t even try to fight against what he felt in that moment but he just went with the flow, only thinking about the enjoyment that one-night stand would give him.
He didn’t think about you or about your relação. E sabem porquê?
Because he didn’t think that you were important to him until he cheated on you and realized what he had done. Now he is just trying to justify his actions and to do anything that will make you stay.
Please don’t take him back because if he cheated on you once, he will do it again. You deserve so much more than his half-assed love.
7. Eu estava bêbedo
Independentemente de estares bêbado ou não, sabes o que sentes.
Quando se trai, faz-se porque se quer. Não é porque outra mulher é mais bonita ou porque existe alguma química. Tem 100% de certeza que quer fazer isso e fá-lo-á de uma forma ou de outra.
So stories about too much alcohol in the blood are quite silly. There are men who were drunker than he was but they didn’t do anything bad because they knew who was waiting for them at home. It is all about setting your priorities—you love or you don’t. It’s as simple as that.
Assim, se um batoteiro tries to make you believe him with a story like this, don’t forgive him and leave him because he doesn’t respect you.
What is the point of living with someone who can’t even resist the slightest temptation? If he is not all yours, you really don’t need him.
In the end, I just hope that you won’t be needing these lines because your man will never cheat on you.
But if he does, you should know that it wasn’t your fault. It is all about him. He is just stupid enough to cheat on a high-value woman like you and a man like that doesn’t deserve a second chance.
Se ele foi suficientemente estúpido para a trair, seja suficientemente inteligente para o deixar ir!
