7 battute di merda che i traditori usano per farla franca

Mettiamo in chiaro una cosa: il tradimento non può essere giustificato a prescindere dalle circostanze.

È uno dei peccati più gravi in una relazione d'amore e chi ha tradito probabilmente tradirà ancora. Conoscete il detto: “Once a cheater, always a cheater!”

Well, it’s true in most cases and if you forgive the cheater his little fun time with another woman, he won’t respect you anymore. He will think that you forgave him something quite big and he will think that you will do it again.

E devo ammettere che alcuni traditori hanno storie davvero belle da raccontare alle loro partner. Ce ne sono di sciocche, ma ce ne sono di belle e alcune donne ci credono davvero.

Ecco l'elenco delle battute più comuni che i traditori usano per farvi rimanere.

1. I didn’t want to hurt you

Seriously? You went to bed with another woman, undressed her and fucked her and now you tell me that you didn’t want to hurt me?

The problem is that all cheaters will cheat because they want to. No man would cheat on his partner if he didn’t want to do that. Nobody can make you do things that you don’t want.

So, when a cheater tells you something like this, just know that this is his way of trying to get away with it. He is not sorry about cheating on you but the truth is that he doesn’t want to lose you.

Spero davvero che tu gli dica che razza di idiota è per averti tradito e che sapeva che ti avrebbe ferito se avesse fatto una cosa del genere. Anche se ti viene da piangere e tutto il tuo mondo sta crollando, mantieni la tua dignità e lascialo con orgoglio.

2. È stata colpa sua

Sì, la cosa più facile da fare è dare la colpa all'altra parte. Sei stato così maldestro da scontrarti con lei e, senza nemmeno accorgertene, ti sei infilato nelle sue mutandine.

This is just a pathetic excuse to justify his behavior and to make you stay, so I just hope that you won’t believe him. Cheaters will always try to make someone else guilty for what they did.

Se fossi in te, non farei mai perdonare un uomo like this because he definitely knew what he was doing and he didn’t even think of you.

In fact, he was looking at her and he didn’t see you.

A man like this doesn’t deserve to be with a woman like you because you have so much to offer and he obviously doesn’t respect that.

3. Possiamo avere una relazione aperta

È una frase che un traditore dice quando sente che non c'è modo di tornare indietro.

He feels that he is trapped in a corner that he can’t escape from and he is using all kinds of weapons to make you believe him.

He might say that he was flirting with someone but that he didn’t go any further than that.

Mentire!

Una patetica bugia che lui usa solo per farti restare e dargli un'altra possibilità.

Please bear in mind that even if he was just flirting with someone, this is also a sign that he wasn’t thinking of you or how his behavior would affect you. And that is not l'uomo che ti meriti.

So, leave him while you can but don’t forget to tell him that one day he will be sorry for doing all those nasty things to you.

4. È proprio come te. Ti piacerebbe che lei

Sì, la cosa migliore sarebbe che tu sviluppassi un'amicizia con la donna con cui il tuo partner ti ha tradito.

È un pazzo se pensa che vi farà meno male se dice che la persona con cui vi ha tradito è una brava persona. Questo è solo un modo per giustificare il suo comportamento e per cercare di farla franca con il suo errore.

If he was so stupid to cheat on you, be smart enough to let him go. A man like that doesn’t respect you and he will never give you the love you deserve. Or anything else besides tears.

5. Sono rimasto deluso dal suo comportamento

Questa è la bugia più grande di tutte. Un traditore vi incolperà di avervi tradito.

He will tell you that you were neglecting him and that he didn’t get the love he craved so much. And just because of that, he cheated on you to be happy for a short time.

He will even tell you that he wanted to belong to someone because you don’t make him your priority and that his fragile heart couldn’t stand to be broken all the time.

Listen to me, if you still care about yourself and if you want a good life, leave him as fast as you can. He doesn’t deserve your pure love and everything he says is just an attempt to make you forgive him.

6. I don’t know what happened for me to do that

Dicendo questo, ammette di essere stato solo un animale che ha lasciato che i suoi istinti lo portassero al fallimento.

He didn’t even try to fight against what he felt in that moment but he just went with the flow, only thinking about the enjoyment that one-night stand would give him.

He didn’t think about you or about your relazione. E sapete perché?

Because he didn’t think that you were important to him until he cheated on you and realized what he had done. Now he is just trying to justify his actions and to do anything that will make you stay.

Please don’t take him back because if he cheated on you once, he will do it again. You deserve so much more than his half-assed love.

7. Ero ubriaco

Non importa se eri ubriaco o meno, sai cosa provi.

Quando si tradisce, lo si fa perché lo si vuole. Non perché un'altra donna è più bella o perché c'è una certa chimica. Siete sicuri al 100% di volerlo fare e lo farete in un modo o nell'altro.

So stories about too much alcohol in the blood are quite silly. There are men who were drunker than he was but they didn’t do anything bad because they knew who was waiting for them at home. It is all about setting your priorities—you love or you don’t. It’s as simple as that.

Quindi, se un imbroglione tries to make you believe him with a story like this, don’t forgive him and leave him because he doesn’t respect you.

What is the point of living with someone who can’t even resist the slightest temptation? If he is not all yours, you really don’t need him.

In the end, I just hope that you won’t be needing these lines because your man will never cheat on you.

But if he does, you should know that it wasn’t your fault. It is all about him. He is just stupid enough to cheat on a high-value woman like you and a man like that doesn’t deserve a second chance.

Se è stato così stupido da tradirti, sii abbastanza intelligente da lasciarlo andare!