7 puntos que está comprobando antes de hacer la pregunta

¿Qué hace que un hombre decida que quiere casarse? ¿Qué puntos tachan los hombres de su lista antes de decidirse a hacer la pregunta?

Men, just like women, have this imaginary “list of things” that they find important to follow when it comes to deciding with whom they want to spend their life.

No, they don’t look for the perfect, hot woman who will be able to make them the perfect sandwich.

Prestan atención a otras cosas que son de suma importancia cuando se trata de establecer un matrimonio sano y feliz.

So, if you’ve already talked about tying the knot, you’ve made it clear that you want to spend the rest of your lives with each other, and he still hasn’t popped the question, chances are that he’s still checking the following points to make sure that you’re the one!

7 POINTS HE’S CHECKING OFF BEFORE HE POPS THE QUESTION

1. Familia/amigos como tú

Antes de hacerte la pregunta, todo hombre debe asegurarse de que caes bien a su familia y amigos y de que te aprueban.

If you don’t get along with the people who are an important part of his life, some issues may arise in the future.

That is why he will never pop the question until he’s one hundred percent sure that you will be able to form a healthy and positive community together.

2. Niños

One of the most important things that every man wants to make sure of is seeing that you’re good with kids and, most importantly, hearing your opinion on having children someday in the not too distant future.

That’s why he will always observe how you get along with kids when you have the opportunity; he will notice if you don’t feel that comfortable or if children don’t really like you.

En cualquier caso, lo mejor es ser sincero con respecto a tu opinión sobre tener hijos algún día.

The worst thing you could do is pretend that you’re crazy about children only to win his affection.

3. Soporte

Todo hombre quiere asegurarse de que su futura esposa será de apoyo y no puramente crítico.

He wants to see that he can always ask you for advice and come to you with new ideas, without fearing that you’ll discard all of them and tell him that he’s a lunatic.

So, if he likes to spend lots of time playing video games or doing something else, he wants to make sure that you’re okay with that because if you’re not, confrontation will be inevitable.

4. Hacer el amor es genial

No, he doesn’t expect from you to fulfill his deepest fantasies, yet he wants to see that you two are compatible in bed, because making love is one of the most important things when it comes to marriage and maintaining passion.

He will conclude that lovemaking is great if he sees that you’re esforzándose just as he is and you’re willing to reciprocate, try something new (if you’re okay with that), and tell him if he’s doing something wrong.

5. Objetivos e intereses similares

Es realmente difícil imaginar pasar la vida con alguien cuyos objetivos e intereses difieren drásticamente de los tuyos.

Por eso, antes de hacerle la pregunta, querrá asegurarse de que tenéis objetivos, intereses y sueños similares.

Quiere pasar tiempo con alguien que le comprenda y a quien comprenda en términos de consecución de objetivos y perseguir la felicidad.

6. Inteligente

Recuerda esa cita: “Looks fade, but personality lasts forever”?

Yes, he wants to make sure that you’re not just a pretty face, but that he can always have a meaningful conversation with you and learn something new from your perspective.

But, don’t get me wrong. Intelligence doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to have Albert Einstein’s IQ.

Una persona inteligente es la que no tiene miedo de decir lo que piensa, la que sabe escuchar a los demás y dar respuestas satisfactorias en lugar de quedarse callada y asentir todo el tiempo.

And that’s exactly what men want from their women and future wives.

Quieren a alguien que les escuche y que también esté dispuesto a contradecirles cuando se equivoquen.

7. Honesto y de buen corazón

Sin honestidad, no hay relación sana ni matrimonio sano. La honestidad es la base de todo.

Si confía en ti de todo corazón, no dudará ni un segundo en hacerte la pregunta.

La honradez va de la mano de la bondad.

Quiere ver que eres una persona cariñosa a la que le gusta abrazar a los animales, disfruta ayudando a otras personas y cuida de sus seres queridos.

Quiere ver que confía en ti en cuerpo y alma, y una vez que se asegure de todo ello, nunca dudará en pedirte que te cases con él.