7 razones para "ir a por todas" con tu nuevo chico

You two have been having a great time right from your first date till now, but you still have doubts regarding whether you should “go for it” (jump all in) with your new guy or wait for another one with whom you might be more compatible.

Eres consciente de que cuanto más te apegues a él, más probabilidades tendrás de que te rompa el corazón.

But, that’s just how dating works. Just like poker, dating is a gambling sport where you can never be prepared for potential losses, but you can never forgive yourself for not taking a risk.

To help you with your decision to “go for it” with your new guy, here are 7 reasons to put your fears aside and give him a chance to be tu nuevo novio. You’ll never know until you try!

1. Os gustáis mucho

You appreciate every second spent together and you simply can’t get enough of each other.

Every time you’re about to part, he says that he had a wonderful time with you and he wants to see you again.

Éste es el mayor indicador de que os gustáis de verdad y no sólo físicamente.

¿Por qué no le das la oportunidad de demostrar que merece ser tu novio?

2. You’ll have a companion

Having a companion means having someone who understands your inner fears and desires, one who will be there for you all the time and with whom you’ll have the time of your life.

If you “go for it” with your new guy, you’ll have a companion and your connection will be much deeper than it is now.

You’ll be happy, he’ll be happy, and you’ll ooze positivity!

3. He’s given you a sign / signs

If you’re still skeptical of his intentions, think about his behavior and potential clues and signs that he might have been giving you all this time.

¿Te mira siempre a los ojos? ¿Se esfuerza por mostrar sus modales de caballero?

¿Siempre te sorprende con pequeñas cosas, te llama primero y te hacen sentir especial?

If the majority is yes, girl, all this time he’s been giving you signs that he’s crazy about you and the only thing you need to do is to make things official!

4. Puede que consigas lo que siempre has querido

Don’t even think of telling yourself that you’ll never have what you want and your dreams will simply never be fulfilled no matter who you date.

Usted mismo sabe que eso no es cierto.

If you don’t give him a try, you will never know whether he’s the man of your dreams and whether you’ll get what you always wanted.

Always be positive when it comes to taking risks and making your dreams come true, because it’s all in your head.

Recuerda que si crees en la belleza de tus sueños, ¡los cumplirás!

5. You’ve been putting it off too long

If you’ve had bad experiences in your past, the chances are that you won’t be willing to enter another relationship, regardless if the guy is the embodiment of a gentleman.

Hacer esto es un gran error que no te perdonarás fácilmente en un futuro próximo.

No debes permitirte perder a un buen chico sólo por tu pasado.

Let go of everything that happened before and enjoy the present, because that’s the only way to true happiness.

Véase también: Así es como se detecta al chico bueno en una multitud de perdedores tóxicos

6. It’s nice to have a date

If you’re still not convinced to jump all in into a new relationship, just think about the feeling of knowing that someone is waiting for you to show up and make their day.

It’s nice to have a date to places, to laugh together, to go for drinks, and to talk about your goals and dreams.

When you have someone like that, your life becomes an adventure and it is way more fun than only overthinking about “what if.”

7. Todas tus amigas tienen chicos

Sé que ésta no es realmente una razón válida, pero si todas tus amigas tienen chicos, seguro que has pensado en cómo sería si tú también fueras la que tuviera un chico.

Para ayudarte con la respuesta: ¡sería fantástico!

Your connection with your friends will become so much stronger and you will create a happy little community of love, fun, and more love. So, it’s worth a try, right?