8 mierdas que hacen los hombres cuando quieren romper contigo

Enamorarse es la parte fácil. Pero cuando las cosas se ponen difíciles y hay que decir algunas verdades duras, los hombres recurren a formas horribles de hacerte saber que quieren salirse.

If you’ve ever suddenly started wondering what the heck has gotten into your boyfriend, this is the right place for you. Some men start acting really shitty when they want to break up but don’t have the balls to tell you (or send you a mensaje de texto de ruptura). 

Sus mentes están decididas a romper, así que empiezan a comportarse como un completo extraño y se distancian para que lo hagas por ellos.

They are cowards and, instead of facing you with their honest feelings, they will resort to these 8 shitty things to subtly let you know they’re no longer into you.

Echarle la culpa a usted de la tensión de su relación

Things have taken a turn for the worse and it’s clear who’s to blame here. But no, Mr. Perfect isn’t capable of taking any blame for his really crappy actions, so he just points fingers instead.

He’s the one who complete distanced himself from you, but he starts accusing you of doing the same. He’s the one who has suddenly become secretive and evasive, but he insists you’re the one who’s keeping things from him.

Whatever shitty thing he does, he just tries to pin it on you. He’s got no balls to at least be genuine and real with you, so he resorts to the lowest of lows.

Te llama loca cuando le recriminas su comportamiento

This is just the easiest way out. Instead of accepting his role in this shitshow, he calls you crazy for suggesting he’s doing anything wrong. When men don’t want to stick around, this is the easiest thing to do.

Insultarte y no andarse con rodeos es su forma de decirte que le releves de sus obligaciones de novio. Su pie ya está a medio camino de salir por la puerta, así que pónselo fácil y despídete. You don’t need an immature boy anyway!

He starts whining whenever he’s not okay with something

La verdad es que a los hombres les encanta ser dulces y tiernos con sus chicas. Les encanta hacerlas sentir mimadas y especiales. Y se lo merecen.

But when a guy has no problem whining and complaining around you, he’s clearly no longer trying to win you over.

Yeah, it’s really sad and unfortunate (because you deserve someone who’ll treat you like the queen you are), but it’s also a blessing in disguise.

Básicamente, ya no le importa lo suficiente como para mostrarse amable y simpático contigo, así que puedes echarle y centrarte en lo que realmente importa.

Hace planes con sus amigos sin decírtelo.

He goes out as much as he wants and for as long as he wants, regardless of you knowing about it or not. He doesn’t tell you about his plans and he doesn’t text you when he’s out.

He’s just off doing his own thing and you’re not sure what the hell is going on anymore. To you, he’s still tu novio, but to him, it’s no longer the case.

He wants out of the relationship and that’s why he’s acting like he’s a single dude. That’s what he aspires to be and that’s why he no longer informs you of his plans. In his head, you’re no longer his girl.

Te promete algo y luego se retracta de su promesa

He has become a huge disappointment. You make plans that you’re really excited about, and then he cancels last minute. No explanation, no real reason, it’s just no longer happening.

He tells you he’s going to pick up your dry cleaning or get you lunch on his way over, but he never does. His word no longer means anything and he doesn’t even care to explain himself.

In his head, you’re not going to be his girlfriend for much longer, so there’s no point being a good boyfriend anymore. He doesn’t try anymore and it’s really showing.

Pone fin a toda conversación sobre el futuro...

Si se le ocurre hablar de matrimonio e hijos, lo rechaza. Piensa que el matrimonio es una mierda y no tiene nada claro lo que quiere para su futuro.

Se niega a decir nada sustancial y se nota que la sola idea de hablar de ello le produce ansiedad. De repente, el tipo que enamorado de es una sombra de lo que fue.

This guy is just trying to find a way to escape commitment and he doesn’t care how shitty it makes him look.

Coquetea abiertamente con otras chicas en público

He’s not even trying to hide it or deny it. He smiles at every hot girl that passes him by and even talks them up on occasion. Sure, he totally downplays it and might even claim he’s just being friendly, but you know that’s a lie.

Está intentando hacerte ver lo mal novio que es para que rompas con él. Quiere que te caiga tan mal que te preguntes qué viste en él en primer lugar.

Tarda mucho en responder a tus mensajes y ya casi ni te llama.

At this point, it’s really obvious what this means. A guy who loves you, wants to be with you, and appreciates you, answers your texts. He also calls you and makes sure to text you during the day as well.

But his guy has become a ghost. You can feel him slipping away text by text, missed call by missed call. Every day, you realize it a bit more, you just don’t want to admit it to yourself.

Cariño, no es más que una pérdida de tu tiempo. Deja a este imbécil inmaduro con alguien de su nivel y vete a buscar a un chico que te respete lo suficiente como para decirte lo que siente directamente a la cara.

Nobody can guarantee you it’s going to be perfect, but it sure as hell can’t get more petty than this.