Sé realista, sé leal o aléjate de mí

Do you ever feel like you’ve just had enough of it all? Like, you’re sick and tired of dating the wrong men and wasting your time on people who will never be able to see your worth?

¿Alguna vez has pensado que deberías renunciar al amor? ¿Como si realmente no estuviera hecho para ti?

I know that giving up on love is wrong because deep down, I’m sure that we all have a soulmate, that one person who is meant for us and with whom we’ll spend the rest of our lives.

Pero aún así, sinceramente, después de que mi última relación terminara, estuve a un paso de convertirme en una loca de los gatos y quedarme así el resto de mi vida.

What’s the point of cheating?

I don’t get it. What’s the point of playing with someone’s heart? How can someone betray the person they swear they honestly love?

When will some people learn that a human heart and emotions aren’t their toys? You can’t play with it and then throw it away when you get bored or find a new ‘toy’ for yourself.

Buscar consuelo en el karma

The thing that comforts me is that those people don’t believe in karma. Pero yo sí. Y sé que algún día llamará a sus puertas.

It’ll catch them off guard and make them pay for hurting another human being and breaking their heart. Puede que su calendario sea lento, pero el karma estará servido algún día, porque el karma siempre gana.

My soul is full of bruises, and my heart is full of marks. They were both hurt so many times, and I think they’ll never be able to heal completely.

It’s time for change

That’s why I have decided to change some things. This is where I’m putting my foot down. It’s enough. I’ve had enough of the mistreatment and half-hearted love. It needs to stop right here, right now.

I’m not saying it all was my fault. Maybe some people will judge me and say how I was guilty of letting my heart get broken again and again for so many years or how it’s my fault for allowing others to treat me poorly.

Sinceramente, sólo quería que me quisieran. Quería sentirme verdadera, incondicional, eternal, forever kind of love that I was giving to others. If that’s a sin, a crime, or a mistake, then I am guilty, and I’m admitting to my crime.

To the man I will love next…

Ahora mismo me odio un poco por permitir que los hombres me hagan sentir insegura.

Now, when I’m completely aware of how much I am worth, I will never allow another man to treat me any less than I deserve ever again.

I won’t accept being treated as basic anymore. From now on, a man who’ll want to date me will have to try hard to win over my heart.

I will never again commit my time or give my honest and pure feelings to a man who isn’t ready to reciprocate them the way he should.

Nunca más perdone ser traicionada o engañada. Nunca más le daré a un hombre más de una oportunidad porque creo sinceramente que si amas a alguien de verdad, nunca le harás daño.

I will never again settle for half-hearted love. There are no halves when it comes to real love. It’s either to the fullest or not at all.

El próximo hombre con el que salga tendrá que ponerme a la cabeza de todas sus listas, pero sobre todo de su lista de prioridades.

He’ll have to prove his feelings, but most of all, he’ll have to prove to me that love isn’t complicated.

And, the only way he’ll be able to do that is simply by truly and deeply loving me with his entire being.

I know that I don’t ask for too much. I just want to be loved, truly loved without any games or betrayals. Unfortunately, I see that’s too difficult to find in this fake world today.

I’ve decided that I won’t tolerate or entertain any more nonsense. It’s definitely time to start appreciating myself more.

It’s high time to stop allowing men who don’t deserve me to waste my precious time.

I’m tired of forgiving and sick of giving second chances. From now on, it is going to be like this: Sé realista, sé leal o aléjate de mí.