A todas las chicas que siguen rompiéndose el corazón

When you look at your love life up to now from this point of view, all you can see is pain and disappointment. You’ve been hurt more than once and many men have taken advantage of you and did nothing but cause you pain.

When you come to think about it, you can’t even count how many times you had your heart broken. Of course, not all of these heartbreaks left a permanent mark on your soul but some of them were devastating.

And you keep wondering why that is so. How come you can’t find a way to leave this never-ending circle of having your heart broken and of you always being the one who gets hurt?

¿Por qué todos estos hombres te eligen para causarte dolor y romperte el corazón? ¿Por qué todos acaban dejándote y por qué nadie puede amarte como mereces?

Bueno, odio ser yo quien te lo diga, pero eres tú quien sigue rompiéndose su propio corazón.

Usted es quien se enamora de todos los hombres equivocados, el que permitió que siguieran causándote dolor después de que lo hicieran por primera vez y el que siguió sufriendo por ellos.

Sé que hacerte daño era lo último que querías hacer pero, de alguna manera, eso fue exactamente lo que acabaste haciendo.

Rompiste tu propio corazón cada vez que dejó entrar al tipo equivocado. Lo hacías cada vez que conocías a un jugador o a un tipo que en el fondo sabías que era problemático.

You did it every time you didn’t follow your intuition or every time you thought you could save or change a man. I know siempre pensaste que tu amor curaría a todos esos hombres emocionalmente inaccesibles but sometimes this simply doesn’t happen.

Y tú eres el que acaba herido y dañado emocionalmente, mientras ellos siguen viviendo su vida como si nada hubiera pasado.

Te rompías el corazón cada vez que aceptabas a alguien que sabías que te haría daño.

You did it every time you gave a guy a second chance, thinking that time would be different. You did it every time you went back to a man who you knew wasn’t right for you.

You did it every time you let your abuser back in, thinking he wouldn’t continue hurting you.

You broke your own heart every time you forgave someone for the things you shouldn’t have.

You did it every time you forgave a guy for cheating on you, for abusing you in any way or for not treating you right. I know you did it because you loved them but the harsh truth is that you’d just given them a heads-up.

By forgiving them, you’d just shown them that their behavior was acceptable and that’s why they continued acting the way they did all along.

Rompiste tu propio corazón cada vez que perseguías a un hombre que era miedo al compromiso. Because it was obvious that you two didn’t want the same things from the start.

And instead of walking away and instead of doing your best to try and find someone who would give you what you needed, you allowed these men to use you for their ego and you allowed yourself to become someone’s booty call, when that was the last thing you wanted.

Rompiste tu propio corazón cada vez que pensaste que un chico cambiaría por ti. What you obviously didn’t know is that people never change for others. People change only when they feel the need to.

Instead of looking for a guy who would be compatible with you, you kept getting yourself involved with men whom you wanted to change. But sadly that never happened and all of the pain that you’ve been through caused you to be the only one who changed.

You broke your own heart thinking you didn’t deserve better than some guy who treated you like shit.

You did it every time you were scared of stepping out of your comfort zone, every time you were afraid of leaving a guy you knew didn’t deserve you.

You did it every time you missed a chance to be with someone who would love and appreciate you just because you thought you weren’t good enough for them.

Rompiste tu propio corazón cada vez que te aferraste al pasado. Lo hacías cada vez que revivías todos los recuerdos que tenías en la cabeza.

Lo hacías cada vez que leías todos los mensajes antiguos con tu ex y cada vez que llorabas hasta quedarte dormida pensando en lo felices que podríais haber sido los dos.

Lo hacías cada vez que mirabas fotos antiguas de los dos sonriendo, cada vez que consultabas su perfil de Instagram o Facebook o cada vez que pasabas por su casa o ibas a algún sitio, con la esperanza de encontrártelo.

You broke your own heart whenever you didn’t allow yourself to move on. You did it because you didn’t know that you were the one impedir que seas realmente felizla que no te permite superar a los hombres que no te trajeron más que dolor.

Así que, por favor, deja de hacerte todo esto y lánzate por fin al futuro feliz que te mereces. Cuida tu corazón porque eres la única que puede sanarlo.