No se nace mujer fuerte, sólo se llega a serlo
Sí, sólo puedes convertirte en una mujer fuerte.
Life gets rough. It gets devastating for some and even worse for others. That’s when true, strong warriors are forged and their true abilities are shown.
Through challenges and hardship, women build themselves to become bulletproof. As written above—no one is born this way.
Cada una de las mujeres que ves y admiras por su fortaleza, ha pasado por un infierno y ha vuelto para convertirse en la mujer que es hoy.
Dicen que todo tiene un precio. Bueno, esto es más que cierto y cada mujer fuerte lo sabe, cada una de ellas pagó el precio.
Strong women rise from the ashes of their lives and they spread their wings at the perfect moment. That’s what makes them different.
The moment when they’re supposed to fly, they do it. While others stay chained to the ground, suffocating in their own sorrow and self-pity, they seize the moment and just fly away to the unknown.
That’s not an easy move to make but it’s the one that distinguishes the steel ones from the soft ones. It’s a move that gives birth to the strong woman we all want to become.
Esto es qué define a una mujer fuerte. Esto es en lo que todos tendemos a convertirnos.
1. They don’t hide from their feelings
They embrace whatever goes around in their head and their heart. Whether it’s complete chaos or perfect order, they find a way to handle it. There is no room for panicking or feeling sorry for themselves.
Sólo hay espacio para encontrar soluciones a los problemas.
Every strong woman knows that bottling up feelings leads to ending up in an even worse state than you’ve already been in.
It’s easier and so much wiser to confront what’s boiling inside as soon as possible.
2. Nunca dudan de sí mismos
They are never lost. It’s impossible for a woman like that to be stuck in one place without any idea of what to do next. A strong woman always has a backup plan and she always knows what to do next.
La fórmula de su éxito es la confianza. Simplemente creen que pueden conseguirlo todo y confían en su propio criterio.
Nothing can bring them down or make them doubt the decisions they have already made. We should all think like that, shouldn’t we?
3. Son honestos, a veces francos
Strong women don’t find lying even an option they can use. They will always tell you the truth, no matter what.
Aunque la verdad no sea exactamente lo que quieres oír, te la servirán porque, al fin y al cabo, mereces saberlo para poder tomártelo de forma constructiva y mejorar.
Una mujer fuerte nunca te hará daño a propósito ni te mentirá sólo para hacerte sentir mal.
Una mujer fuerte quiere para ayudarte a mejorar y unirte a su club lo antes posible.
4. Saben cuánto valen
They know how much they are ready to achieve. They know what they are capable of and what they’re not.
Pero quizá el factor más importante de la conciencia de su propia valía sea el hecho de que nunca se compararán con otra persona.
Las mujeres fuertes sólo se tienen a sí mismas para juzgar y valorar y a nadie más.
They are not intimidated by anyone’s success because they are focused on their own instead.
5. Saben perdonar
A strong woman won’t waste her energy on holding grudges and being mad at someone.
She simply doesn’t have the time to deal with childish things. She’s mature enough to be the bigger person and forgive even when it’s not her fault.
Don’t let her forgiving nature fool you. It doesn’t mean you can have your way with a woman like this. You cannot lie to her and you cannot take advantage of her.
She knows how to forgive but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t know how to punish and protect herself. If you cross her, you won’t get another chance to do it again.
6. They don’t want attention, they want respect
La atención es para los inmaduros. Las mujeres fuertes exigen respeto e igualdad. Una mujer fuerte nunca suplicará por algo que quiere.
Lo conseguirá por sí misma. Si fracasa, se las arreglará sola, pero nunca suplicará por ello.
They never explain themselves, nor do they demand respect. If a person doesn’t respect her, she will see there is no place for her in that person’s life and she will simply just walk away.
7. Siempre guardan un recuerdo del momento que les hizo fuertes
Or moments… it doesn’t matter; the point is, they never forget the struggles and the pain which forged them to become the warrior they are now.
If it weren’t for the pain and the losses, they would have never become what they are.
Están agradecidas por cada cosa que les ha pasado en la vida. Una mujer fuerte nunca olvidará de dónde viene ni quién es.
8. Admira a todas las mujeres fuertes hasta que te conviertas en una
No tiene sentido sentir celos de estas mujeres. Sólo puedes admirarlas y, sobre todo, aprender de ellas.
La forma en que actúan, la forma en que luchan por sí mismos es impresionante.
They make it look so easy, to achieve that determination and attitude, but it’s far from easy.
Respect them because they’ve come a long way to become what they are. Someday, I hope you will, too.
