Así es como te tratará una chica que te quiere de verdad

En tu vida, habrá muchas chicas. Y la mayoría de estas chicas tendrán algunos sentimientos por ti y te mostrarán algunos tipos de emociones.

Algunas no te verán más que como un amigo, otras sólo se sentirán atraídas sexual o físicamente por ti, otras se enamorarán de ti y otras te amarán.

Pero de todas estas mujeres, una destacará y sólo una será especial. Sólo una chica será única y diferente.

I am not going to tell you that you’ll recognize this girl the moment you lay your eyes on her, because that might not happen.

I am not going to tell you that you’ll feel like you’ve known her for your entire life and I am not going to tell you that you’ll feel like she is your soulmate.

Porque eso podría ocurrir o no.

It is possible for this girl to be the same as everyone else to you in the beginning and it is possible that you won’t see anything special in her at first.

But even if that happens, you’ll eventually see this girl’s worth and you’ll see her uniqueness.
No, you won’t see that she is different from others because of her looks or brains.

You’ll see how special this girl is by the way she treats you and you’ll see it by the way ella te ama.

Porque esta chica realmente te tratará especialmente.

This doesn’t mean that she will be submissive to you and it definitely doesn’t mean she’ll nod her head to everything you have to say.

It doesn’t mean she’ll blindly support every decision you’ll make and that she’ll follow you through life as if she doesn’t have a mind of her own.

It doesn’t mean this girl will put up with you cheating on her and disrespecting her, because she definitely won’t.

It doesn’t mean she will allow you to manipulate her or abuse her in any way.

It doesn’t mean that this girl will think that you are perfect and that she won’t see your flaws.
Y eso es exactamente lo que la diferenciará de los demás.

Porque verá tus imperfecciones y te querrá no a pesar de tus defectos, sino a causa de ellos.

She will be different because she will see the real you and she will love the real you. And no—this girl will never try to change you because she will always respect your personality.

Pero de alguna manera, ella será la única que conseguirá cambiarte.

Esta chica será el viento bajo tus alas.

She will inspire you to become a better man, not for her, but for yourself. You will want to be worthy of her love and respect and that is how you’ll change everything you should change on your own, without her ever pressuring you to do anything.

Y sí, te criticará a ti y a tus decisiones. Pero solo lo hará cara a cara.

Te defenderá de todo y de todos, sin ningún miedo. Y se asegurará de que todo el mundo sepa lo orgullosa que está de tenerte.

Pero esta chica nunca se irá de tu lado. Estará contigo en tus peores momentos y en los más bajos.

Y siempre te querrá igual porque su amor por ti será incondicional.

And the best part is that this girl will never ask for anything in return. She doesn’t need your gratitude and she doesn’t need you returning any favors.

She doesn’t want you buying her expensive gifts or taking her out to fancy dinners.

She will just want your love, respect and efforts. She will only want to see that you appreciate everything she’s done for you and that you are ready to put effort into this relationship.

She will only want to know that she is important to you and that you won’t violate her trust, that you won’t disappoint her and ruin everything the two of you have been building.

Así que, básicamente, lo único que tienes que hacer es no ser tan tonto como para deja ir a esta chica, because trust me, you won’t find someone like her ever again.