Así es como una mujer fuerte cura su corazón roto

Just because she’s strong doesn’t mean that she can’t break under the weight of the world.

Even a strong woman can give her heart to a man who isn’t any good for her and all he does is pour acid into her after he opens her chest up to romperle el corazón.

A broken heart is never something easy to deal with…when you break down in the middle of the street because you remembered a beautiful memory and realise that you won’t have that ever again…when you stay up until four in the morning crying and thinking to yourself that love shouldn’t be this hard.

It’s seeing his face in every random passenger without being able to realise that you won’t get him back.

For every woman, a broken heart is the same experience. It’s the kind of pain that you wouldn’t want upon your biggest enemy.

Yes, that’s how hard it hurts and you’ve been through that, too.

Pero cuando se trata de una mujer fuerte, por alguna razón siempre esperamos que afronte las rupturas y los desengaños de una manera en la que se sacuda la herida como si nada hubiera pasado. Pero no.

Así es como una mujer fuerte cura su corazón roto:

Llora. It’s no secret that it hurts like hell and no matter how strong a woman is, she will cry.

A broken heart isn’t something that will heal overnight, so it will continue on hurting.

She will remember him at night and she will dream of him before she wakes up crying because she has realised that he’s not by her side anymore.

Habla de ello. There’s no need to keep it inside anymore. So much pain isn’t good and she knows that.

Going to the people closest to her is the best way to cope with the pain because they will have the right words to cheer her up and to be honest, she doesn’t have the strength to deal with all these feelings herself.

Necesita a alguien que la abrace y le diga que estará bien.

Es indulgente. Se perdona a sí misma y al hombre que la destrozó. No hay necesidad de guardar rencor y culpar a alguien por lo que ha sucedido.

She believes that everything happens for a reason and that her heart will feel much better if she forgives herself and the man who did this to her. It’s better this way. She deserves peace.

Convierte su dolor en combustible. It isn’t a secret that pain makes the best artists. To una mujer fuerteEl dolor es la mejor motivación para hacer cambios en su vida.

Every time there is an outburst of pain inside her, she won’t just sit around and wait for it to pass because that won’t bring her anything.

Saldrá a correr, irá a tomar un café con sus amigas. Así no se acumula energía negativa en su interior.

Está haciendo cosas por sí misma. Cuando te rompen el corazón, sería una pérdida de tiempo no quererte a ti mismo.

That’s why a strong woman loves herself and she knows that this way she will heal faster.

Se lleva a sí misma a citas y cenas, siempre atenta a que haga las cosas que necesita para sentirse mejor.

Come bien y se viste mejor que nunca, para demostrarse a sí misma que es capaz de valerse por sí misma.

Nunca volverá con el hombre que la destrozó. Esperar que el hombre que la rompió la ayude a sanar es lo peor que puede hacer.

He can only deepen her wounds and that’s not something she wants to do – not now, not ever. There’s no need to give him a second chance if he blew his first one! It’s as easy as that.

Tendrá miedo de volver a amar. Whenever someone tries to come near her, to flirt with her or text her, she gets defensive and she doesn’t want to do anything with that person.

But that’s just her first instinct because it’s scary to trust someone so soon after she has been broken. She has made boundaries to keep her heart safe. There’s nothing wrong with that.

But she won’t throw her life away because of one broken heart. ¡Se merece algo mejor que eso!

She won’t let a man be the reason she doesn’t love anymore. She won’t let someone who didn’t know how to love her keep her from someone who will.

She won’t rush into a new relationship. That would be irresponsible of her and there’s no need for her to do that.

She knows that her broken heart won’t survive another break down and that those pieces should come back together before she can fully give it to someone new. So she doesn’t rush anywhere!

She knows that true love will come when she’s ready to receive it.

Hasta que se cure completamente y hasta que se asegure de que el próximo hombre del que se enamore sea digno de ella, she won’t let herself fall in love.

Now, it’s time to love herself and show herself that it’s OK to treat herself with kindness, love and appreciation! This is her time and no one should interrupt it.

Se cura a sí misma. Un día se despertará y se dará cuenta de que ella sola ha conseguido curar su corazón roto.

No se necesita a ningún hombre para ayudarla porque ella es lo suficientemente fuerte como para llevar sus propias cicatrices y su propio quebranto.

Es la mujer fuerte que todos deberíamos admirar. Aunque esté rota y dañada, aunque le duela el pecho, está haciendo un trabajo increíble para curarse.