If you think that by ignoring a narcissist you’ve saved yourself from him, remember that is only the tip of the iceberg. So many more things will be going on afterward. It’s even safe to say that it’s only the beginning. You think that you’ve gotten rid of him for good, but his rage and…
You’ve been through some rough times. Actually, rough times doesn’t even describe it enough. You’ve been through hell. What you experienced can literally be compared to hell. Perhaps there are other girls or other women who went through something similar, and perhaps only they can understand you. But someone who hasn’t experienced the things you…
Do you know the story of Narcissus? It goes like this: There was a Greek hunter known for his beauty. He was a son of a river god and a nymph, extremely proud of himself, but he disdained those who loved him. One day, the gods noticed his arrogance and attracted him to the pool…
After dating a narcissist, after the initial shock you go through when he knocks you down, all you want is to make this bastard go through everything you went through. You want to see him down, to see his heart crushed and to make him feel all the pain you felt because of him. And…
There is this old saying that goes something like this: A burnt child dreads the fire. You too, like a little child, have been burnt so hard that now even the smallest spark reminds you of a great fire. You fear that what happened to you in your past might happen again. You fear that…
Anyone who has gone through narcissistic abuse knows that there is no closure. Narcissists either discard you or you go no contact. When my narcissist left me, I could not handle the pain. I couldn’t understand why the world kept moving and why my heart kept on beating. For me, it felt like the end…
You think I wouldn’t want to be normal? You think I cause all the mess we go through because that’s the way I like it? You think I’m one of those who likes to confuse people and send mixed signals? None of that is true. I would kill to be normal. But having a mess…
Yes, you can hurt people to the point where they’ll never forget the things you said or did to them. The things you say and do affect other people in ways you can’t even imagine. You might hurt someone on purpose but you may also say things in anger or in pain that you might…
Have you ever heard about the term ‘love bombing’? To put it simply, it is one of the techniques narcissists use to get to their victims in a way in which they literally bomb you with all of their love right at the beginning of your relationship and then take it all away from you,…